well, not my extended family.

plus i used to work as a server and i saw it there pretty clearly.

i agree w/SH below - among the blacks women were the worst tippers. when i had a table full of black women i knew i was going to get run around w/extra bullshit and at the end i wouldn't get tipped well. and i tried not to let that bleed into my service.

i also agree that blacks and black women weren't the only ones w/extra demands and bad tips. old white women were also stingy. and foreigners - especially Asians.