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Topic subject | Is it true that women don't want a man who can't pull other women? |
Topic URL | http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12740603 |
12740603, Is it true that women don't want a man who can't pull other women? Posted by MistaGoodBar, Tue Mar-03-15 11:12 AM
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12740707, must be..cause women never holla until youre in a relationship. Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Mar-03-15 12:30 PM
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12740755, stop making perfect sense, sir. Posted by MistaGoodBar, Tue Mar-03-15 12:58 PM
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12740719, Nobody wants to think 'unattractive' is the best they can do. Posted by Monkey Genius, Tue Mar-03-15 12:36 PM
Even though it's prolly true for most people.
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12740729, 10 women, 10 men in a room. Posted by Binlahab, Tue Mar-03-15 12:46 PM
All the men would pick one woman a piece.
All the women would pick the same man.
#godsezha
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12741033, lol, close enough i guess Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Mar-03-15 03:01 PM
if u dial down the hyperbole...
the men would pick 1-4 and if they are still available after the top 3 males have basked in the attention will take just about whoever is left over
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12741039, That man would be me. Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Mar-03-15 03:03 PM
You can take your frustration out on me here:
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12741042, highly doubtful. nm Posted by Binlahab, Tue Mar-03-15 03:05 PM
does it really matter?
wonder what bin's doing? http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg
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12741046, Yes, I concur. Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Mar-03-15 03:12 PM
I'm an alias on a message board. You have no information to form an opinion.
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12741367, Well the info we have is you are an alias on a message board Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Mar-03-15 08:34 PM
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r
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12741415, and he's Bartek Posted by KiloMcG, Tue Mar-03-15 10:08 PM
sorry, plato, but i'm pretty sure you're Bartek.
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12741131, good way illustrate it for sure, exaggeration but not by much. Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Tue Mar-03-15 04:20 PM
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12741171, lol bullshit Posted by lfresh, Tue Mar-03-15 04:51 PM
>All the men would pick one woman a piece. > >All the women would pick the same man. >
~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
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12740818, is the reverse also true? Posted by BabySoulRebel, Tue Mar-03-15 01:39 PM
no man wants a woman no other man wants?
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12740866, I don't care how "ugly" or whatever undesirable attribute a chick has Posted by illEskoBar221, Tue Mar-03-15 01:59 PM
There's always a dude who will find something attractive about her Always
Granted sex and relationships are two different things though But "ugly" chicks get love It may not be 100+ likes on her ig pic But there is some cat flooding her inbox with msgs trying to come through
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12741113, correct Posted by cgonz00cc, Tue Mar-03-15 04:05 PM
>It may not be 100+ likes on her ig pic >But there is some cat flooding her inbox with msgs trying to >come through
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12741133, only to a very limited extent. if u fine & overlooked, it wont stay like that Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Tue Mar-03-15 04:21 PM
unless you actively will yourself to be alone by being standoffish, isolated and batshit crazy. no ors. all ands.
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12741425, maybe back in 8th grade Posted by gumz, Tue Mar-03-15 10:22 PM
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12740839, I personally dont care Posted by SimplyHannah, Tue Mar-03-15 01:50 PM
As long as I like him.
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12741051, i like that you're willing to date underdogs. Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Mar-03-15 03:15 PM
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12741102, women don't even want FRIES till someone else is eatin 'em Posted by J_Stew, Tue Mar-03-15 04:00 PM
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12741111, damn. Posted by cgonz00cc, Tue Mar-03-15 04:04 PM
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12741114, lls Posted by ambient1, Tue Mar-03-15 04:08 PM
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12741115, ^^^ Kicked the truth to the young black youth Posted by Marbles, Tue Mar-03-15 04:10 PM
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12741116, ha! Posted by Somnus, Tue Mar-03-15 04:10 PM
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12741132, YES Posted by Ashy Achilles, Tue Mar-03-15 04:21 PM
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12741135, The ball bounced off the front iron and you just rocked that rim, son Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Tue Mar-03-15 04:22 PM
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12741136, LOFL Posted by astralblak, Tue Mar-03-15 04:22 PM
in relationships:
during the romantic period I'll be like "you want some fried love? sure, here"
1.5 years in she starts grabbing your In & Out fries without even taking her eyes off the tv, and in your mind you like "self, have control, physical violence is not the proper response here"
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12741165, is March 3rd to early for reply of the year? ^^^^^ Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Mar-03-15 04:47 PM
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12741176, gets my vote Posted by rdhull, Tue Mar-03-15 04:52 PM
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12741510, its never to early Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-04-15 07:08 AM
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12741183, Fock! Posted by dafriquan, Tue Mar-03-15 04:58 PM
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12741200, WOW Posted by soulfunk, Tue Mar-03-15 05:23 PM
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12741221, wow. Posted by MistaGoodBar, Tue Mar-03-15 05:41 PM
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12741226, . . . Posted by SoWhat, Tue Mar-03-15 05:44 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpI4ElAnKeU
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12741227, perfect Posted by Mynoriti, Tue Mar-03-15 05:45 PM
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12741372, The absolutely easiest way to get the attention of a pretty Girl.... Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Mar-03-15 08:38 PM
Is to be with a pretty girl. It use to be good to have a pretty girl for a wingman.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r
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12741416, looooooooooool Posted by Starks dunked on Bulls, Tue Mar-03-15 10:10 PM
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12741426, post of the year Posted by gumz, Tue Mar-03-15 10:23 PM
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12741428, holy shit....this motherfucker just spit crinkle-cut flame Posted by murderbear, Tue Mar-03-15 10:25 PM
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12741521, ^ neva lied, lol Posted by 2.tears.in.a.bucket, Wed Mar-04-15 08:14 AM
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12741522, nail on the damn head Posted by Mgmt, Wed Mar-04-15 08:15 AM
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12741556, lol Posted by LegacyNS, Wed Mar-04-15 09:11 AM
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ <---- 5.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dlgiritpmfo
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12741560, Rim Tap! Posted by Case_One, Wed Mar-04-15 09:14 AM
. . . "Today is your day to have a better life -- it's your right."
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12741593, well done. Posted by daryloneal, Wed Mar-04-15 09:32 AM
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12741824, !!!! Posted by Wonderl33t, Wed Mar-04-15 11:16 AM
______________________________ http://i.imgur.com/81XSukd.jpg
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12741941, *Wayne Dawson Grin* Posted by Dr Claw, Wed Mar-04-15 12:06 PM
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12742536, ENDPOAST Posted by SP1200, Wed Mar-04-15 05:40 PM
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12741129, It’s true that some people set ridiculous standards to justify their shortcomings. Posted by Cold Truth, Tue Mar-03-15 04:17 PM
shortcomings.
In this case, the man who can’t pull other women is a desperate attempt to validate their own choice. If he can’t pull these other women, then that means he must not be all that great. If he can pull other women that validates her choice in that particular man. None of this has anything to do with the true value of that man OR his true compatibility with the woman who chose him. It’s no different than buying a house/car/appliance simply to keep up with the Joneses.
I’ve seen the same in men- guys who want the girl that all the men want, primarily because all the men want her.
That’s how the so-called ‘nice guy’ winds up pining for the hot girl who pines after the bad boys who mistreat her, because he thinks that he’s somehow the only one really knows her when he’s really too blinded by her beauty to see that she’s just plain shallow (and/or just plain doesn’t like him). That guy is oblivious to the fact that he’s really just as shallow and truly no better than the bad boy the hot girl keeps chasing. There’s also a hero complex embedded in that, but I digress.
In the end these people ultimately see their partner as a status symbol, a trophy to be won and displayed so as to validate the “winner”.
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12741178, but no *looks around* its women Posted by lfresh, Tue Mar-03-15 04:53 PM
>In the end these people ultimately see their partner as a >status symbol, a trophy to be won and displayed so as to >validate the “winner”.
~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
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12741201, Yeah. Men seem largely oblivious to their failures on this front. Posted by Cold Truth, Tue Mar-03-15 05:23 PM
I’d say this tends to manifest differently in men and women
Each seems to have particular tendencies with this, but anyone saying this is strictly a female thing is delusional. To me ‘nice guy who wants hot girl who wants bad boy’ and ‘girl who wants guy that other women want’ are pretty much the same.
Granted those are two generic archetypes used as primary examples, but people in general can have some truly fucked up ways of measuring prospective partners and can be petty as all hell when it comes to what disqualifies someone from contention. I will say I’ve seen more of the petty disqualifications come at the hands of women than men, but I’m a man and generally less likely to see quite as many from the female perspective.
I’ve seen women disqualify men because they still eat Cap’n Crunch, which is borderline un-American if you ask me. I can’t think of a single instance where a guy I knew dumped a girl for some shit like that, but again, I’m again a guy so I’d naturally see less of it from the female perspective.
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12741137, The Honorable Patrice O'Neal teaches us that this is true Posted by 13Rose, Tue Mar-03-15 04:22 PM
So it must be. My wife also believes this to be the case. The day you forget how to talk to a woman is the day you are too corny to be with.
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12741429, "Why do you still have a boat?" Posted by BlackLex, Tue Mar-03-15 10:26 PM
Classic Patrice
http://youtu.be/WNqVC4cRxeQ
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12741288, I think its a confidence thing Posted by Regina Rose, Tue Mar-03-15 06:57 PM
Many women are attracted to confident dudes Confident dudes (regardless of how they look) can pull women If your dude cant pull other women the theory could be that he's lacking
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12741433, hell ya.lotta lame niggas get it twisted hangin round a flock of women Posted by _explain555, Tue Mar-03-15 10:33 PM
bff style like it aint obvious they aint fuckin
1 nigga in a crew of chicks?
ok LOL
power in numbers man
cuz when da dawgs roll deep? sheeeeit we eat good
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12741525, this is true for women AND men Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Mar-04-15 08:34 AM
well, except for those weird women who marry gay dudes...
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12741585, To an extent Posted by illegal, Wed Mar-04-15 09:28 AM
my woman has been forever convinced that I can "catch fish" lol
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