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Topic subjectRE: If I like him then I'll go
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12739681, RE: If I like him then I'll go
Posted by vee-lover, Mon Mar-02-15 02:36 PM
>>guy suggests somewhere *really* inexpensive to eat at?
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>>You can't tell me that won't alter how you feel abt his
>>prospects as potential boyfriend/SO/fuckbuddy going forward
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>It really just depends on if he's being cheap or if thats his
>financial situation.

If it's a first date, how would you really know if he's being cheap or if that's his financial situation, though?


If that's just his situation and he's
>trying then im cool with it. If he cheap then I'll just
>eventually stop talking to him. But that's hard to assess from
>just a first date, cause as you see most guys are not trying
>to spend a lot anyway regardless of whether they have it or
>not lol.

Yeah you already said what I was going to say in regards to knowing if he's being cheap or if it's just what he can afford to spend? (Hard to determine from the 1st date)

And yes, dudes in here ain't Tryin to trick off like that I see
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>>>But I usually let the guy pick as a courtesy because I
>don't
>>>know what his financial situation is, so he can pick what's
>>in
>>>his price range.

So what if its you who are paying for the date...do you know already know how much you want to spend?
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