I'm incapable of holding secrets from my s.o. It doesn't matter how small, if I don't confess to something I did, it eats me up inside and torments me.

I've never understood how people are able to get some side action and keep it a secret. Doesn't it burn with guilt? How do you look someone in the face after a clear violation and pretend everything is ok? It doesn't even have to be cheating, anything really, any little lie, etc. If I don't have the truth I feel lost.

Even if it's embarrassing or points to some insecurity I'm entertaining, I have to let the cat out of the bag.

I even let my girl know which members of the opposite sex I hold conversation's and friendships with.

So, am I whipped or doing the right thing?

Is it better to be transparent or to hold something back for yourself?