for real...
you need to just cut out all the social media for like a good year or two...
get a facebook alias if you must....but you gotta go incognegro x 10....


in my salad days...there was this one ex that I used to U-Turn on for like a good 10 years.....

in retrospect....the pattern wasn't love for her...or anything that cushy and romantic....it was simply that she was a good and easy lay and she made me feel important. she gave me attention.. Carnal and simple as that.... she was a good person, good peeps...but she was easy. and that made it easy for me to be #thatguy that you're referring to....

I'd venture that all men have a woman like that too....
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