1. Got an issue in your relationship that's eating away at you? You MUST talk about it with your lover.

2. You must discuss it when you are comfortable having considered all of the risks involved.

3. You MUST terminate the relationship if you are convinced you will not ever be ready to discuss the issue.

4. If your lover initiates the discussion about this serious issue you MUST participate in the discussion when you are comfortable doing so having considered all of the risks involved. If you are never comfortable then you MUST terminate the relationship.

There.

>Just transgender women? People with HIV? People having
>extramarital affairs? Who? Why do we have to use a possible
>consequence severity scale to decide who should have to be
>honest about themselves and who shouldnt? Either be cool with
>everyone withholding information or no one at all.
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