>Might indicate that you're cheap or have trust issues tho.

im actually into spending money on people I like

dates one to three are on shakey ground, you arent sure whats going on with the person, you arent sure where things are going so it does not make any sense at all to pull out all the stops at once

so, first date, I have no issue paying for

the second date I expect a bit of dutch action to happen

after that I have a better idea about where a person is coming from

and Hannah, I have dated a lot so it makes zero sense to come out the pocket all the time for a whole lot of maybe.

everytime I've gone full out things never work out so its a strategic play to remain in the black and sane

its smart sorting.



addendum, because this is OKP I do not mean that I am sitting and calculating and counting dates to the T, this is more of a general idea

its should be a fair back and forth really