12724097, who ever initiates should pay Posted by southphillyman, Tue Feb-10-15 05:45 PM
i don't see how anyone could have a problem with that i'd be willing to go with the guy paying for date 1 always just out of tradition after that who ever is the one pressed to be seen again should pay i think that's fair
once had a situation where a chick KEPT asking me out on dates and KEPT sitting there looking stupid when the check came the quality and frequency of the dates plummeted she basically became a happy hour ONLY date, otherwise i had 101 excuses eventually i got what i wanted then the dates ceased completely didn't have to be that way, but her attitude turned me off so much it turned into me waiting to get a return on my investment kind of deal since i no longer had real interest just be fair
edit: and guys need to get over being called cheap/broke. if a chick thinks you paying for everything while dating is attractive....you probably don't want her anyway
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