If I ask you on a dinner date, I'm expecting to pay, but if you do that fake reach for the credit card, i'm gonna let you pay your share because either:

A) You are a game playing, always coming up with some kind of test, psycho OR
B) You valued my company and realize it's unfair for the man to be expected to pay, in which case I will make it explicitly clear on future dates that I want to treat you.