>Let me get this straight.
>
>You agree that a chick who was raised to be courted should be
>straight up honest and upfront about it with the person that
>shes dating, but a trans chick shouldn't have to be straight
>up honest and upfront and disclose that she was born a male
>to the person that shes dating?

yup.

a transwoman shouldn't ********************************************************************************************NECESSARILY************************************************************* disclose her trans status to a guy she's seeing right away. b/c of the risk of harm to herself.

if ciswomen or transwomen who live on a pedestal faced as great a risk of bodily harm from ppl they date b/c they won't ever pay for a date then i might advise them to w/hold the info a bit too. but since the risks are so different it makes perfect sense that i take the stances i do and your question is clearly dishonest and ridiculous.