it's patently ridiculous to date someone, have a strong feeling about a serious issue but not communicate it out of fear.

i mean, that's what life is...ppl do that shit all the time. and it's patently ridiculous.

communication is key to a healthy relationship. if y'all can't talk about this issue early on in the relationship* then it was likely doomed from the start* and it's best that it blew up early.

*...only death kills marriages more than money issues.