and then acting brand new when you find out something shocking about them after having fucked them* w/o vetting them first via the dating process.

basically.

*...we were discussing a hit and quit it blow job after i'd proposed that i'm fine w/a transwoman not disclosing her trans status to a guy before a hit it and quit it b-j. if a dude doesn't want to take the risk of getting a HIQI BJ from a transwoman who doesn't disclose then maybe he shouldn't have HIQI BJ's. the analysis extends to casual sex w/randoms.