i (physically) dissuaded a "homie" from having sex with a chick that was so drunk she could barely stand. he holds it against me till this day* in his words... roughly paraphrasing here
"so what if she's wasted? do you think she'd fuck me if she was sober?"
he genuinely believes that the only way to score women out of his league is through coercion or trickery of some sort. the sad thing is this girl at the time was a "friend" of ours.

i mean what do you say to that?

it is embedded in the the way the genders interact. just not in such clear extremes.