i don't feel like you need to teach your boy to NOT rape.

you just need to raise them right and teach them what to value.

no one explicitly taught me that and i haven't raped anyone.

it feels like a lot of people are saying you need to be much more direct and explicit with your parenting in this arena. i don't think i need to tell my son "don't rape girls" because if i raise them correctly the thought would never cross their mind - they'd be disgusted at the thought of inflicting that on another person.