I was never instructed on the nuances of rape and yet I have not raped, ever. I mean I hate to sound so callous but it is not rocket science. If she says no its no.

Sure there was a culture of "get the drawls" when I was younger but in the 90s we were concerned with STDs real big and school did its job to remind us about sex and consentual sex.

But if it is necessary then it is necesary