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12723523, Its not always that simple
Posted by dafriquan, Tue Feb-10-15 01:25 PM

>like, just don't rape. have respect for your fellow human
>beings.
The male species (i'm including animals) have rapey tendencies. Reason is what separates us from animals. In moments where reason is clouded, we default to some hardwired instincts. We all understand that people snap and get violent but the propensity for violence varies from person to person. I think rape is the same meaning different situations will trigger the latent rapist while some men will never rape in any situatiom. Aside from the alleyway creepy rapist, some regular dudes are rapey and need to identified as such. Get an R branded on them or something.

The first step is reporting all rapes and near-rapes so that rapists and would be rapists can be identified, rehabilitated and monitored. If you have frank discussions with young men you will be surprised to find that there is little concensus as to what constitues as rape .

As far as teaching boys not to rape, it might help to socialize them not to view a blue balled non-score as the end of the world. Take your L and go masturbate your sexual frustration away. Also maybe legalising and destigmatising paid sex could help as well.