>btw habit and culture
>and possibly personality
>
>theres a bit of glee that comes with what she does
>
>
>you have to think of away to pierce that facade
>see if shes ready for it
>and just a kinder familial relationship in general
>
>i had to approach my mom about that
>it kinda worked
>i told her that i can love you but i dont have to like you
>id rather like you and not do the usual run from my parents
>and only be around them becaue of obligation thing
>i didn't realize her relationship with her mom was worse and
>that came out
>note
>my moms sneaky though and still couches her concern (which are
>really jabs)
>and adapted to the kinder approach
>man i need to get back to therapy
>
>
>its a continual process
>is what i'm saying
>
>anyways
>its good you are here
>people may have different methods in which you can approach
>her about it
>its time
>i'm usually direct it makes it easier for me
>she may appreciate that
>
>i'd frankly tell her how she makes you feel and what you feel
>every time you have to talk to her it'll be uncomfortable but
>it might be worth it
>~~~~
>When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so
>that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
>~~~~
>You cannot hate people for their own good.

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