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Topic subjectokparents: responses to kids saying the n word to yours
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12721264, okparents: responses to kids saying the n word to yours
Posted by Binlahab, Sat Feb-07-15 07:40 AM
this is the clearest example IMO of how my generation has utterly dropped the ball

the n word has obviously metastisized from something only said by us to us for us to something said by everyone to everyone

i live in a very diverse area, lots of latinos, lots of whites, lots of asians, lots of africans...& a few Blacks

and i know its only a matter of time before im @ the playground...& hear that word uttered by Maria Conchita, or Manuel, or Bob, or Hong or Uche

and i need a game plan

a) what do i do? or say to the other kid?
b) what do i do or say...to mine to equip them to deal?


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg
12721270, Maybe we should just move on like we did with rock.
Posted by Lardlad95, Sat Feb-07-15 08:35 AM
Pick a new word so that in 30 years they can steal that one too.


"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard
12721339, We can take back spook
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Sat Feb-07-15 03:00 PM
Make it a term of endearment
12721332, nothing.
Posted by astralblak, Sat Feb-07-15 02:12 PM
.
12721334, skip A and concentrate on B
Posted by BigJazz, Sat Feb-07-15 02:15 PM
talking to other people's kids should be avoided...
12721470, My kids are most likely to say nigga to your kids.
Posted by kingjerm78, Sun Feb-08-15 05:13 AM
My daughter drops nigga like a grownup.
12722441, firm, but harsh correction if they're young
Posted by Dr Claw, Mon Feb-09-15 02:32 PM
if they're teens and they both Black? nothing
12722468, As a big, black single father, I just don't fuck with "those" playgrounds
Posted by 8-bit, Mon Feb-09-15 02:53 PM
>i live in a very diverse area, lots of latinos, lots of
>whites, lots of asians, lots of africans...& a few Blacks
>
>and i know its only a matter of time before im @ the
>playground...& hear that word uttered by Maria Conchita, or
>Manuel, or Bob, or Hong or Uche