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12716727, when's the last time you sent a text to an ex: 'just thinking about you'? Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
what was your motivation?
Poll question: when's the last time you sent a text to an ex: 'just thinking about you'?
Poll result (5 votes) | i'm a man, i was trying to fuck again. | (4 votes) | Vote | i'm a woman, i was trying to get fucked again. | (1 votes) | Vote |
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12716731, never look back bruh Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Tue Feb-03-15 09:25 AM
it ain't worth it
plus you only end up looking lamer
I never said I've never thought about it but yeah... I might have to commit seppuku on myself if I let myself fall like that
"i wanna hug all u idiotic bastards & then set you all on fire" -Bin
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12717043, exactamundo Posted by ThaAnthology, Tue Feb-03-15 12:24 PM
besides, when you go back... it's always the stuff that made you leave that's the first shit you spot lol.
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12716734, never did this to exes with intent to fuck Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Feb-03-15 09:27 AM
at least if i did my ego blocked that shit out
previous jumpoffs though...oh hell yea
i think sex with an ex aint even desirable at a certain point though
like for what...if u still have feelings that's torture...if u dont, why would u just shit on the copious amount of new pussy out there in the world?
that's a slightly disturbing thought...or maybe jumpoff, buddy, side piece, NSA booty just better
maybe i been hustling backwards with a big ass rearview mirror tricking me
im rambling bc i can't even fathom
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12716765, I used to do it back in my younger days Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 09:48 AM
and every time....
right after I busted, I was disgusted with myself.
sometimes a nigga wants to be with someone who knows exactly what he likes *shrugs*
I ain't never sent that soft ass text tho... hell, come to think about it I wouldn't dare leave that type of evidence on a phone.
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12716736, impossible Posted by Binlahab, Tue Feb-03-15 09:29 AM
im not gonna put that energy out there
does it really matter?
wonder what bin's doing? - Corey http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg
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12716766, My last ex was before cell phones were ubiquitous Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Tue Feb-03-15 09:51 AM
aka old as hell aka I dont know where that fool is ***************************************** huh
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12716771, wow, maybe this is why I never sent a text. Shit was years ago. Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 09:57 AM
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12716848, email counts. Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 10:57 AM
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12716852, no paper or digital trails Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
phone call or it didn't happen.
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12716767, Never. Posted by 8-bit, Tue Feb-03-15 09:52 AM
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12716772, it's been a minute. it was sweet though. Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 09:58 AM
she's a sweet person.
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12716846, what does this even mean? Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 10:57 AM
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12716851, you speak english but don't understand it? Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 10:59 AM
you said when was the last time..
i said it's been a minute. followed with. it was sweet (when it did happen). she's (as in the person that sent a message like that) is a sweet girl.
what don't you get?
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12716854, ooooh i'm the one that doesn't understand english i thought Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
you said "when's the last time and EX SENT YOU ONE that said..."
MY BAD. I thought you were trying to play me. I'm the jackass here.
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12716856, ahh. she sent it. Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:01 AM
got it.
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12716855, what the fuck is a 'sweet girl'? how does that motivate you to send Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:01 AM
a text?
what makes a text 'sweet'? no expletives?
you put a fuckin smiley in it?
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12716786, never. them numbers get deleted off gp 9 times out of 10 Posted by southphillyman, Tue Feb-03-15 10:11 AM
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12716850, Never Posted by John Forte, Tue Feb-03-15 10:59 AM
Not once. Ever.
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12716853, Never done it. Hold up wait, done it bc wasn't no love lost Posted by napturalmystic, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
I was actually thinking of the person and wanted to say hello. Never contacted an ex trying to get laid. Ever.
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12716860, you niggas is lyiiiiiiin. im convinced these types of texts get sent Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:03 AM
on the daily.
who are you super humans who manage their emotions so well that you so easily let go of past loves.
funny guys, you.
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12716934, I met my husband in 1996 Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Tue Feb-03-15 11:33 AM
aka this is a Millennial post. :)
***************************************** huh
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12717036, Yup. I've been w/ MrsForte since before texting became common Posted by John Forte, Tue Feb-03-15 12:20 PM
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12716861, the other day... Posted by Sha, Tue Feb-03-15 11:03 AM
he text back too. my motivation, I missed his energy.
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12716919, his energy? what a hippie. Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:27 AM
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12716933, LOL. it was the truth Posted by Sha, Tue Feb-03-15 11:32 AM
turns out he missed mine as well. :)
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12716870, Never. Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Feb-03-15 11:06 AM
Received a couple... mainly just served to reassure me I was better off without them.
The last one sent a nothing message at 2am... I was still just about up so figured I'd entertain it. Within 10 minutes and about 3 messages she accused me of fucking my best friend and fancying her sister.
Truly legendary drunk texting tbh.
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12716887, I'm friendly with several ex-GFs Posted by Marbles, Tue Feb-03-15 11:14 AM
I don't send "Just thinking about you." But it's not weird for me to contact them every once in a blue moon. Almost all of them are great people. It just didn't work out for us.
I don't have the type of soul-crushing, heartbreaking, life-altering breakups like some folks do.
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12716917, you just like to chit-chat? Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:27 AM
what's the frequency?
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12716940, It's not a scheduled or planned thing Posted by Marbles, Tue Feb-03-15 11:34 AM
One of my ex-GFs & I had an inside joke. A few months ago, I had a funny-ass encounter with the subject of the joke. So I texted her and told her about it. We had a couple of LOLs about it.
Another one got a big promotion a while back & mentioned it on Facebook. I texted her a congrats & to ask about the new position.
One of them likes still lives up north & likes to send pics of the heavy snowfalls they get. In return, I may send her a pic of me on the beach in January.
Random stuff like that. It's not regular or consistent conversation. But then it's also not strange to send or get a message about something specific.
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12716898, i've only responded to that text. i've never initiated it. Posted by SoWhat, Tue Feb-03-15 11:18 AM
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12716923, you respond out of courtesy or similar feelings? Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:28 AM
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12716970, both Posted by SoWhat, Tue Feb-03-15 11:46 AM
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12716929, thats a slippery slope Posted by illEskoBar221, Tue Feb-03-15 11:31 AM
Well for me anyway because I knew I was sending it trying to get some
I sent one or two in my college years Typically after a night of drinking at the club Next thing I know I'm In the guts Passed out after a good nut then The next morn I've got to re answer the questions of why we didn't work Could we work in the near future
Basically i felt like a sleazy ass nigga Because all I wanted was sex and I was exploiting her Longing for an emotional attachment
I had to learn to let that shit be And it's saved me from a few headaches and an overall guilty conscience
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12716932, because alcohol...hell yeah. Posted by Somnus, Tue Feb-03-15 11:32 AM
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12716939, never...can't do it...too much pride...i'm normally the recipient Posted by ambient1, Tue Feb-03-15 11:33 AM
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12717029, naw. Posted by infin8, Tue Feb-03-15 12:17 PM
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