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12716727, when's the last time you sent a text to an ex: 'just thinking about you'?
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
what was your motivation?

Poll question: when's the last time you sent a text to an ex: 'just thinking about you'?

Poll result (5 votes)
i'm a man, i was trying to fuck again. (4 votes)Vote
i'm a woman, i was trying to get fucked again. (1 votes)Vote

  

12716731, never look back bruh
Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Tue Feb-03-15 09:25 AM
it ain't worth it

plus you only end up looking lamer

I never said I've never thought about it but yeah... I might have to commit seppuku on myself if I let myself fall like that



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12717043, exactamundo
Posted by ThaAnthology, Tue Feb-03-15 12:24 PM
besides, when you go back... it's always the stuff that made you leave that's the first shit you spot lol.
12716734, never did this to exes with intent to fuck
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Feb-03-15 09:27 AM
at least if i did my ego blocked that shit out

previous jumpoffs though...oh hell yea

i think sex with an ex aint even desirable at a certain point though

like for what...if u still have feelings that's torture...if u dont, why would u just shit on the copious amount of new pussy out there in the world?

that's a slightly disturbing thought...or maybe jumpoff, buddy, side piece, NSA booty just better

maybe i been hustling backwards with a big ass rearview mirror tricking me

im rambling bc i can't even fathom

12716765, I used to do it back in my younger days
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 09:48 AM
and every time....

right after I busted, I was disgusted with myself.

sometimes a nigga wants to be with someone who knows exactly what he likes *shrugs*

I ain't never sent that soft ass text tho... hell, come to think about it I wouldn't dare leave that type of evidence on a phone.








12716736, impossible
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Feb-03-15 09:29 AM
im not gonna put that energy out there


does it really matter?

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12716766, My last ex was before cell phones were ubiquitous
Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Tue Feb-03-15 09:51 AM
aka old as hell
aka I dont know where that fool is
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huh
12716771, wow, maybe this is why I never sent a text. Shit was years ago.
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 09:57 AM
12716848, email counts.
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 10:57 AM
12716852, no paper or digital trails
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
phone call or it didn't happen.
12716767, Never.
Posted by 8-bit, Tue Feb-03-15 09:52 AM
12716772, it's been a minute. it was sweet though.
Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 09:58 AM
she's a sweet person.
12716846, what does this even mean?
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 10:57 AM
12716851, you speak english but don't understand it?
Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 10:59 AM
you said when was the last time..


i said it's been a minute. followed with. it was sweet (when it did happen). she's (as in the person that sent a message like that) is a sweet girl.

what don't you get?
12716854, ooooh i'm the one that doesn't understand english i thought
Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
you said "when's the last time and EX SENT YOU ONE that said..."


MY BAD. I thought you were trying to play me. I'm the jackass here.
12716856, ahh. she sent it.
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:01 AM
got it.
12716855, what the fuck is a 'sweet girl'? how does that motivate you to send
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:01 AM
a text?

what makes a text 'sweet'? no expletives?

you put a fuckin smiley in it?
12716786, never. them numbers get deleted off gp 9 times out of 10
Posted by southphillyman, Tue Feb-03-15 10:11 AM
12716850, Never
Posted by John Forte, Tue Feb-03-15 10:59 AM
Not once. Ever.
12716853, Never done it. Hold up wait, done it bc wasn't no love lost
Posted by napturalmystic, Tue Feb-03-15 11:00 AM
I was actually thinking of the person and wanted to say hello. Never contacted an ex trying to get laid. Ever.
12716860, you niggas is lyiiiiiiin. im convinced these types of texts get sent
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:03 AM
on the daily.

who are you super humans who manage their emotions so well that you so easily let go of past loves.

funny guys, you.
12716934, I met my husband in 1996
Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Tue Feb-03-15 11:33 AM

aka this is a Millennial post. :)

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huh
12717036, Yup. I've been w/ MrsForte since before texting became common
Posted by John Forte, Tue Feb-03-15 12:20 PM
12716861, the other day...
Posted by Sha, Tue Feb-03-15 11:03 AM
he text back too.
my motivation, I missed his energy.
12716919, his energy? what a hippie.
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:27 AM
12716933, LOL. it was the truth
Posted by Sha, Tue Feb-03-15 11:32 AM
turns out he missed mine as well. :)
12716870, Never.
Posted by TheAlbionist, Tue Feb-03-15 11:06 AM
Received a couple... mainly just served to reassure me I was better off without them.

The last one sent a nothing message at 2am... I was still just about up so figured I'd entertain it. Within 10 minutes and about 3 messages she accused me of fucking my best friend and fancying her sister.

Truly legendary drunk texting tbh.
12716887, I'm friendly with several ex-GFs
Posted by Marbles, Tue Feb-03-15 11:14 AM

I don't send "Just thinking about you." But it's not weird for me to contact them every once in a blue moon. Almost all of them are great people. It just didn't work out for us.

I don't have the type of soul-crushing, heartbreaking, life-altering breakups like some folks do.
12716917, you just like to chit-chat?
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:27 AM
what's the frequency?
12716940, It's not a scheduled or planned thing
Posted by Marbles, Tue Feb-03-15 11:34 AM

One of my ex-GFs & I had an inside joke. A few months ago, I had a funny-ass encounter with the subject of the joke. So I texted her and told her about it. We had a couple of LOLs about it.

Another one got a big promotion a while back & mentioned it on Facebook. I texted her a congrats & to ask about the new position.

One of them likes still lives up north & likes to send pics of the heavy snowfalls they get. In return, I may send her a pic of me on the beach in January.

Random stuff like that. It's not regular or consistent conversation. But then it's also not strange to send or get a message about something specific.
12716898, i've only responded to that text. i've never initiated it.
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Feb-03-15 11:18 AM
12716923, you respond out of courtesy or similar feelings?
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Feb-03-15 11:28 AM
12716970, both
Posted by SoWhat, Tue Feb-03-15 11:46 AM
12716929, thats a slippery slope
Posted by illEskoBar221, Tue Feb-03-15 11:31 AM
Well for me anyway because I knew I was sending it trying to get some

I sent one or two in my college years
Typically after a night of drinking at the club
Next thing I know I'm In the guts
Passed out after a good nut then
The next morn I've got to re answer the questions of why we didn't work
Could we work in the near future

Basically i felt like a sleazy ass nigga
Because all I wanted was sex and I was exploiting her
Longing for an emotional attachment

I had to learn to let that shit be
And it's saved me from a few headaches and an overall guilty conscience

12716932, because alcohol...hell yeah.
Posted by Somnus, Tue Feb-03-15 11:32 AM
12716939, never...can't do it...too much pride...i'm normally the recipient
Posted by ambient1, Tue Feb-03-15 11:33 AM
12717029, naw.
Posted by infin8, Tue Feb-03-15 12:17 PM