I know I can't. Unless my kid's with his grandmother or a sitter for the evening but even then... I damn sure don't/won't take the party back to my crib.

I'm an overthinking, awkward motherfucker. I get anxious just thinking about having the whole convo go along the lines of... "you can't spend the night" or "you can but our day starts at 530am so your ass needs to be out by 5" or just the whole idea of someone getting a glimpse of our routine. I'm pretty protective about that aspect of my life so I just get paranoid about folks seeing me in full on mom mode LOL. Plus I have an open door policy so I know my lil dude would wile out if there were actual closed/locked doors up in this piece.

So yeah, all my fun time is restricted for the weekends but I'm curious about how y'all do it....

*sips milkshake*



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