circumstances.

in households where there's a woman/mother, i like the idea of that outlet being there with the mother primarily.

the parents also have to set an example.

the way the father talks and interacts with the mother is important. the child learns love language by watching them.

he learns how men talk to women, and how sensitivity can play a role.

also, me? i was a cry baby.

don't really know where the shit came from, but as a child i had an excessive amount of 'feels'.

if i have a child that has the amount of hypersensitivity that i had, i might have to lay off the kisses and coddling.

i got a hypersensitive nephew. he's 15 now and likes to hug and hold and say thank you and tell people how much he loves them.

the shit even makes me uncomfortable when this big nigga is holding me with his head nestled in my neck.

im sure not to try and stifle his love offerings, but damn dog, don't be such a hugging and holding ass-nigga. and that's coming from a sensitive man.

i would never say this to him, maybe when he's older.