What a card you are

>so why do we act so brand new about it?
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>all of us should bury our parents. b/c if we don't then they
>have to bury us - and that's probably the worst thing that
>could happen to them. or right up there among the worst.
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>meanwhile the 'order of things' requires that we bury them.
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>it's normal. so why do we make such a huge deal of it?
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>i guess when it happens when we're young it's hard b/c we feel
>like we still need them. like their job wasn't finished.
>that makes sense.
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>but like...in our 30s? 40s? 50s? why be new about it?
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