12714267, It does tend to be self focused Posted by Ted Gee Seal, Fri Jan-30-15 01:56 PM
>Whether you believe in an after-life or not, the person who's >died is in a better place than you are. > >But you're left alive to miss them. Missing someone you'll >never see again hurts. > >And it's okay to express that pain. > > >I think you could try to be more compassionate about it.
A person can be caught up in the sadness of others, but I think there's a reason why we say "sorry for *your* loss."
If it wasn't self focused we would grieve far more heavily for the loss of others, but we don't, because those losses don't affect us as much.
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