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12714173, In everything you just said, you're focusing on the negativity of "selfish"
Posted by KosherSam, Fri Jan-30-15 01:14 PM
Selfish just means that you're only focused on yourself.
When you're grieving, all of that counseling and coping and whatnot is about YOU. Coming to terms with YOU no longer being able to see the person that died. Dealing with how YOU are going to move on from this. Everything about the grieving process revolves around YOU, and getting YOU through it.
It doesn't have to be negative to be selfish.
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