I wish more ppl could chime in on this...but that would mean talking to ppl who actually lost both and would have to be hard.

but do you really think losing a person you're in love with, who you think is the ONE, or is the one, would hurt more than losing your son?

i feel like i can always find someone to fill that void if i lost a mate, but you really can't replace a child and ppl try to all the time which is why you see so many ppl adopting or getting pregnant right after they lose a child, but it doesn't help and that pain will always linger.