no deep thought. so show-er/grow-er doesn't matter.

if he's showing more meat than i'm showing then i'm squeezing by w/my ass b/c i want to feel that meat on my buns.

if i have more meat then i'm going by w/my boys up front hoping to catch a feel of what he's dragging behind him.

if she's a woman i'll let her go by first b/c girls are icky. ewww.