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12710665, On: Dudes not taking no for an answer
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:08 PM
So i told y'all coworker is letting me curve cats in her inbox

well this has moved to her phone.

Some nigga got her number though a mutual friend and started texting

this brahd aint text back once from 16 TEXTS...over a span of 3 weeks.

I tell her to block him. She won't upgrade her phone to do it(i say that's her own fault)

so he texts yesterday and she shows me

it says

"Hey beautiful just gimme a shot"

so i step in with that good shoot down

"Hey sorry, not interested can you stop texting me"

wrong move apparently

nigga put the full court press on.

gimme a shot
we can be friends
you woulda blocked me if u dint want to talk to me
i'll wear u down
if u had a man u wouldn't have replied

all that from my reply to him lol

she mad at me now cause he done sent 5 more texts today that she aint answered.

nigga sent her a pic this morning of ole boy Ving in Baby Boy naked cooking and the meme was like "Do u want sausage for breakfast"

she asked me does this stuff work?

I was like "I wouldn't know, i got game plus i aint gotta use tactics with all of this"

*Vanna White hands up and down self*
12710674, i totally read all into that "sausage for breakfast" line....
Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Jan-27-15 03:13 PM
as if to say...you want summadisdik?
12710683, that's exactly what it was
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:15 PM
i was like damn this nigga aint get but one reply and it was a send off and u send THAT shit?
12710706, that's the text equivalent to "when it doubt, whip it out" mantra.
Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Jan-27-15 03:26 PM
if you're gonna go down...go down fighting.
12710753, lol...nigga threw up a hail mary on 1st and inches
Posted by mikediggz, Tue Jan-27-15 03:55 PM
12710675, SMH she is not smart
Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Tue Jan-27-15 03:13 PM
And that person that gave him her number needs to be kicked in the ass also.

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huh
12710686, i told her to just upgrade and block
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:16 PM
it takes 30 mins to do the shit.....

but yeah her friend needs they ass whooped.
12710677, i have never heard this phrase before
Posted by Selah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:14 PM
"curve cats in her inbox"

from the context I think it means: to e-cockblock, for sport

awesome
12710700, I had to look it up on Urban Dictionary and I'm still not sure
Posted by Teknontheou, Tue Jan-27-15 03:22 PM
what it means.
12710761, Picture if like judo
Posted by Hitokiri, Tue Jan-27-15 04:10 PM
niggas is coming at a chick (trying to holler) and she's gotta hit 'em with this:
http://www.rq87.flyingomelette.com/RQ/SF/H/game2.gif

This chick is just letting Geah roll 'em up for her because she's not good at it or whatever

Unforunately, this nigga here is like Vega in the above clip in that he just lands on his feet ready for come back at her.
12710681, that's beyond persistent. that's stalker-ish...
Posted by BigJazz, Tue Jan-27-15 03:14 PM

***
I'm tryna be better off, not better than...
12710687, LOL
Posted by Calico, Tue Jan-27-15 03:16 PM
...does she know who the "mutual" friend is?? cause i'd let that person KNOW how i felt bout this...

i can't imagine anyone that fine that i'd play myself like this over

she really needs to block homeboy, or just really ignore him...at least he ain't callin....

...you could revrse look up the # and...welll nevermind....

12710692, SHE AINT EVEN FINE
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:18 PM
>...does she know who the "mutual" friend is?? cause i'd let
>that person KNOW how i felt bout this...
>
>i can't imagine anyone that fine that i'd play myself like
>this over
>
>she really needs to block homeboy, or just really ignore
>him...at least he ain't callin....
>
>...you could revrse look up the # and...welll nevermind....
>
>

oh he's called and left messages...she don't even listen she just deletes.

12710699, wow and wow
Posted by Calico, Tue Jan-27-15 03:22 PM
this is beyond thirst....she really should contact the law...this is the kinda dude that WILL show up at her house if he figures that out...
12710718, therein lies the rub
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:30 PM
dude
is
a
cop
12710722, This is the cliffhanger. Now we should get scenes from next week n/m
Posted by Marbles, Tue Jan-27-15 03:33 PM
12710745, if this ends with her meeting up and telling him she has herpes
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Jan-27-15 03:47 PM
we seen that episode before
12710704, sadly, these niggas exist.
Posted by PoppaGeorge, Tue Jan-27-15 03:24 PM
And there's one in every crew.

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forcing myself to actually respond to you is like bathing in ebola virus. - Binlahab

Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is dead. - VAsBestBBW

R.I.P. Disco D
12710707, The best lesson a young man can learn is when to cut your losses.
Posted by Overqualified, Tue Jan-27-15 03:26 PM
Taking a strategic L is highly underrated.
12710710, first he needs to learn what an L is...
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Jan-27-15 03:27 PM
cause he prolly always winning *in his mind*
12710777, And that's part of the problem
Posted by Overqualified, Tue Jan-27-15 04:35 PM
I can understand youthful ego, as an adult when you can't recognize that something isn't working and the energy you put into forcing the issue could be applied to something more fruitful - you've taken a bigger L.
12710721, that's not even a loss though. he never got off the bench & into the game...
Posted by BigJazz, Tue Jan-27-15 03:33 PM

***
I'm tryna be better off, not better than...
12710744, in the game? he ain't even in the stadium...
Posted by Calico, Tue Jan-27-15 03:47 PM
he outside wit scalped tickets tying to get through
12710708, if she isn't willing the upgrade to block a crazy dude
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Jan-27-15 03:26 PM
it's because she likes the attention.

She prolly be showing all her friends

12710709, Jesus, I hate stupid people....
Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Tue Jan-27-15 03:27 PM
your coworker and her mutual friend got heads harder than a sock of rocks...

I couldn't deal with such shenanigans every day



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12710729, niggas like that won't chill till they hear another male voice
Posted by ambient1, Tue Jan-27-15 03:37 PM
I got $50 sayin if she has a dude answer when he call, I bet he chill
at best he MIGHT crack slick callin one more gin but I doubt it


I bet he early 40's lls

chill recedes at the same rate as hairlines

12710733, i disagree
Posted by Geah, Tue Jan-27-15 03:39 PM
i don't think he will ever stop

gotta hit that block.

12710746, yep
Posted by Calico, Tue Jan-27-15 03:49 PM
sad but true.....
12710751, some dudes yes other no..
Posted by Regina Rose, Tue Jan-27-15 03:53 PM
The really persistent ones will just ignore and still hit you up..after all if you still "allowing" them to contact you you MUST be interested
12710795, ^^^^^ works
Posted by Castro, Tue Jan-27-15 04:57 PM
12710741, dudes who are like that are like that with every woman
Posted by Regina Rose, Tue Jan-27-15 03:45 PM
I had a friend say "I don't know what it is about me that has him acting like that?" I didn't have the heart to tell her that those types behave like that with all women ..why? Cause some women respond to that kind of behviour

Hell I got a cousin who got pregnant by a persistent dude and ruined her life nicely
12710798, he right tho lol
Posted by Trinity444, Tue Jan-27-15 05:02 PM
I wouldn't have responded like...ever
12710804, See...so I've been hearing women mention that guys don't respect their
Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Tue Jan-27-15 05:09 PM
non interest unless they have a man/husband...and many of them say it's because men only respect men and not women.

I really can't say because I'm not one of those, but I can see how it appears that way. To me, it's more so that A. They know a man will whoop their ass or even shoot them for over stepping boundaries B. Their ego allows them to say "ok, I'll give her a pass...I know she'd get with me if she didn't have a man."

But yeah, regardless...these dudes are super weak, yet the opposite of me. I feel like I don't try hard enough.
12710961, you gotta have supreme confidence that no nigga can whoop yo ass
Posted by decaturpsalm, Tue Jan-27-15 08:25 PM
im not that type
but im pretty confident no nigga can whoop my ass
unless he jon bones jones or somethin
12710817, all these responses and not one: cuz that ish b workin
Posted by Selah, Tue Jan-27-15 05:20 PM
y'all let me down OKP
12710958, Crazy that with a few women out there, it actually does
Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Tue Jan-27-15 08:15 PM
Maybe it's the whole "he must REALLY be into me to go through all that." Or either, "this mothafucka gets on my nerves so got damn much, he owes me a meal for this."
12710968, Puttin that Urkel on em
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Tue Jan-27-15 08:37 PM
I'm wearing you down
12711043, Yeah, dude is a weirdo..
Posted by BabyYoda, Wed Jan-28-15 01:06 AM
However, I am not sure if I would continue to do ol'girls dirty work because based on this story, it seems like she low key likes the attention. A woman who is truly disinterested would have blocked dude and him being a cop, would have found out where he worked and hit up his superiors. So, to me, she is playing games which is just as annoying as the harassing cop. If I was in this situation, I would tell her to either she be more proactive or else she will be on her own.