Like chicks here tawnbout what's gonna happen if they men don't get em shit.

I'm like HANH?

Poll question: Ladies in relationships: Do you expect a gift on Valentines day?

Poll result (20 votes) Yes (8 votes) Vote No (9 votes) Vote Hoe With Cool Stories (3 votes) Vote White (0 votes) Vote

so V-day means nothing to us

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frequent date nights, we do most everything together...we go to bed at the same time most nights and fall asleep in each other's arms every night (unless we had an argument lol)..he tells me he loves me and that I'm beautiful pretty much every day...hugs and kisses every day

what do i need Valentine's Day for again?

I really love hearing stuff like this, and from the way you talk about your husband on here I know you mean it.

but the longer we are together, the less frequent those bad times are...but it takes work. and i've learned that sooooooo many people are NOT about that work.

plus, we found each other later in life...sometimes that makes a difference in how much more you appreciate each other.

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>Like chicks here tawnbout what's gonna happen if they men
>don't get em shit.
>
>I'm like HANH?


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but he can't keep noooooo secrets and told me to keep that week free...he's the sweetest!

I expect something big or small.
unless money is really tight, I expect a token, even if its just a card.
we dont make big deals out of holidays and birthdays


Mixes
http://www.mixcloud.com/rachel-stewart/
Jewelry
http://rachelstewartjewelry.com/
Photography
http://www.creativesilence.net/

waste of money
i'd rather him clean the kitchen or watch the boy so i can do my nails.

one day a year is NOT enough special for me

but what's messed up is our anniversary is on Feb 7, daughter's birthday Feb 2. I can't catch a break in February.

not necessarily a gift but we should be doing something to celebrate

romantic dinner (at home or out), a bed w/ some rosepetals on it. something.

that day should not come and go without some sort of acknowledgement and action

Men arent mind readers.


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huh

to commemorate the day.

A movie and dinner at home is PERFECT for me.

Doesn't have to be something big at all. As long as we're together that day and I feel good about where we are relationships-wise.

I've spent V-day with someone I KNEW I wasn't happy with and it was painful in more ways than one.

i dont have colors
my mmsic:
www.soundclick.com/sylana
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Brb8g8f18xE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NgNuVHrEKI

we talked about it a few times before & she was like "I don't really celebrate V-Day so I'm not expecting anything."
Nah, come Feb 15th I got ripped a new one cuhz we didn't really celebrate.
I'm never making that mistake again.

I asked him if he'd planned to celebrate the day and he immediately said no. I was all, cool. Great. Glad to know. And I started to imagine taking myself out alone that day. But then I realized that I was upset. So I said, "Wait, I do want to do something. I was gonna let it go but I don't wanna. That'd be a lie. I do wanna do dieting and it doesn't have to be big, but it has to be something. It can even be untraditional."

So now that I said all that I realized I gotta do something too. Ugh. Boy, I stuck my foot in my mouth this time... what am I gonna do?

the year we actually decided to celebrate Valentine's.

When you make it something small, simple and cute, it's easier.


I got him a sketchbook with a love note in the front of it. He forgot, so I didn't get anything.
And we broke less than 2 months later, lol.

I'm married. If I get one...great. If I don't okay... My hubby works hard to put a roof over mine and our daughter's head while I am able to stay home and be a mom to her. He pays for my gym memberships and anything else I need. If he forgets Valentine's Day...it's okay :)

But, maybe that's just me.