he was fresh out of a 20 yr marriage. to a woman. i was fresh into a new career as a lawyer. hell, i wasn't even a lawyer yet - i was a student. so the 6 figure salary gap was too much also.

we didn't have enough in common. and i wasn't ready to be his wife replacement.

i had a 10 yr gap rule that i broke to be w/him. after him i realized i have that rule for good reason. so i'll probably stick to it. until the next guy like him sweeps me off my feet like he did.