>who got all offended that i suggested he exercise for this
>reason....
>
>i don't think it's selfish because you never know who's going
>to live longer.
>
>in fact,l they got all kinds of medicine and this means sick
>people live a LONG damn time.
>
> i didn't want to be an active 40 something and looking 30
>like most black women do and wheeling around a 60 year old
>white guy in a wheelchair cause he never went to the gym and
>he had arthritis and heart problems.
>
>people thinking i'm the help and shit...
>

I mean, how dare you ask that he take care of himself so that he can enjoy a longer life of better quality with you? Anyone can slip into bad habits, I know I do, but to balk at the suggestion? Oh dear.

I want to live healthy and die quickly.