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Topic subjectAny Dudes have only (older) female siblings?
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12706139, Any Dudes have only (older) female siblings?
Posted by Nvncible1, Thu Jan-22-15 03:45 PM
Kind of an interesting dynamic.
Whats your relationship like with them then and now?

They are very close, but I've noticed I've pulled away from them the past several years. being the only boy. trying to find my own way and my own lane. I realized fairly early theres a certain closeness (some) sisters have that a brother can't really tap into.

Besides they all seem to have more of a mothering/aunt role towards me that is a lil much sometimes.

But yeah. whats y'all dynamic?
12706148, my little sister is six years older than me.
Posted by Deadzombie, Thu Jan-22-15 03:46 PM
i made a post about her being evicted and staying in my house last summer. with her newborn and his father.

im the more responsible one (gufaw!) so when i was 25 and she was 31, she became my little sister.

we love each other dearly.

some of my best laughs are with her.

and we kinda look alike. which freaky deaky.
12706153, I'm 9 years older than my little brother
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Thu Jan-22-15 03:48 PM
so yes I am kinda like a mom/aunt at times
kinda can't help it, I helped raise him
been more of a consistent presence than our own father.
12706163, I have an older sister, we were close when I was really young. We've grown
Posted by Binladen, Thu Jan-22-15 03:51 PM
apart the older I get. Im the only boy as well...
12706167, i've found its....interesting to date women who have ONE little brother
Posted by MrThomas43423, Thu Jan-22-15 03:53 PM
like those girls were had a sister or two and then 10, 11 years later ooops....out pops a little brother. their sibling dynamic is totally off. they seem to be big on mothering and taking care of men, in a bossy overbearing sort of way. some little girls have a tendency to be bossy anyway and giving someone bossy care over a little boy scars them for life.

also...they get hurt quick. if you're play fighting or wrestling...they're gonna get hurt. if its a verbal spat and you return fire with fire....they're gonna get hurt. they can dish it, but can't seem to take it.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.
12706174, yo. keen observation.
Posted by Deadzombie, Thu Jan-22-15 03:55 PM
12706254, Ugh. You just described my two oldest sisters
Posted by deejboram, Thu Jan-22-15 04:23 PM
Both 10 &11 yrs older
12706208, Three of them. 5, 10 and 11 yrs older. I say I have four moms.
Posted by deejboram, Thu Jan-22-15 04:07 PM
>Kind of an interesting dynamic.
>Whats your relationship like with them then and now?
>
>They are very close, but I've noticed I've pulled away from
>them the past several years. being the only boy. trying to
>find my own way and my own lane. I realized fairly early
>theres a certain closeness (some) sisters have that a brother
>can't really tap into.
>
>Besides they all seem to have more of a mothering/aunt role
>towards me that is a lil much sometimes.
>
>But yeah. whats y'all dynamic?
12706225, Dynamics.
Posted by deejboram, Thu Jan-22-15 04:15 PM
Oldest I'm closest with.
She raised me the most.
She raised all of us really.
She was born like that.
Always wanted to be the teacher or the mom when they played house.

They reach moved out of the house when they were 16 so when I was 6 it was just me and my fast ass 11yr old sister in the house

Middle sister we have a thick wedge between us because she is SDA and I'm a devil loving atheist

Youngest sister I don't gig with her because her life is a real live jerry springer show mixed with black Twitter.
All day every day. I can't deal with that shit.
Her and her baby daddys having arguments via Twitter and shit
Nah man.

Sisters 1&3 smoke trees and drank so we might all get together and get blowed at a Anita Baker concert or something
Great family times



EDIT:
Also, stuff never reached my mom
If I did something bad
I'd get fucked up three times before it got to my mom
My sisters would handle me
They were also my protectors
If somebody tried to fight me
My sisters would be there to beat them up for me
Put my youngest sisters boyfriend

12706331, I have one, she's just under 2 yrs older than me.
Posted by Starbaby Jones, Thu Jan-22-15 04:54 PM
We're cool; like, we have convos on a regular basis. Unfortunately, she makes piss poor decisions and I just got tired of seeing them up close. So, I made the conscious effort to pull away a bit, because it became too hard to watch without saying anything.
12706402, 2 of them. 3 years older, 6 years older
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Jan-22-15 05:40 PM
it's cool. I only see them once or twice a year.
12706414, waddup wid yo sister tho? (c) every triflin homie ever
Posted by murderbear, Thu Jan-22-15 05:51 PM