The nanny will do things that the mother will want to see done differently. If there are good lines of communications then of course they can communicate the differences will out turning into a big thing but the difference will create some tension.

Tension isn't the worst thing in the world.



>>The wife will always have tension with the nanny no matter
>how
>>great she is.
>
>I think giving room for the parents and the nanny to connect
>is essential. They aren't just there for the kids. There will
>be criticisms form both sides, but having an open line of
>communication makes those constructive rather than things
>either party holds on to and grows to resent. I think this is
>really important because if you're going to go that route
>consistency is of extreme importance with the kids, and if
>divides start happening between parents and nanny it can have
>an extreme negative effect.
>
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>Big PEMFin H & z's
>"I ain't no entertainer, and ain't trying to be one. I am 1
>thing, a musician." � Miles
>
>"When the music stops he falls back in the abyss."


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