Especially one of your friends that you know ain't no good and he wants to get w/ a relative (sister/cousin) of yours, would you be cool w/that?

Or do you see it as none if your business as long as their both consenting adults?

Poll question: Do You Care If Your Boy Hooks Up W/A Relative

Poll result (11 votes) Yes (5 votes) Vote No (2 votes) Vote It depends... (4 votes) Vote

bad enough you livin foul. but of all the people out here, you gotta mess with mine?

get the entire FOH with that...


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I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

>bad enough you livin foul. but of all the people out here,
>you gotta mess with mine?
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>get the entire FOH with that...
>
>
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>I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

but a friend would know to leave her alone and approach the next. again, of all the women out there, you gotta mess with my peoples?


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I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

Do I care -- Yes.
Am I cool with it -- No.
Are they just two consenting adults -- No.


My thoughts though are about my closest cousins. We're a relatively small family. I have 2 female cousins. 4 male cousins.

If we're talking about the HUGE part of my family though... it's whatever. Have at it. We ain't close.

>Do I care -- Yes.
>Am I cool with it -- No.
>Are they just two consenting adults -- No.
>
>
>My thoughts though are about my closest cousins. We're a
>relatively small family. I have 2 female cousins. 4 male
>cousins.
>
>If we're talking about the HUGE part of my family though...
>it's whatever. Have at it. We ain't close.

question I asked in the text was meant for ppl to expound upon their reasons why or why not they're aren't ok w/a friend hooking up w/a relative of mine

Sorry if the wording of it threw you off, I'm sure you still knew what it was I was asking in the post...

If you didn't, answer the question anyway

he didn't really have a problem with it cause i'm not a grimy dude, he saw it for what it was as his sister wanting to get laid too.

i only have one brother and two older male cousins, so i don't really have any context relating to this post other than being the friend in the situation Haha.

Making breakfast for the whole house just because and shit

might still be an issue w/me and my boy, but just hittin it on some casual sex tip...nah.


>Making breakfast for the whole house just because and shit

Thats fine with me. In fact i hope it works out.

But a smash and dash every time she popped into my town would be...odd.

But i admit there is a double standard, even though there is a reasonable explanation for it. BC if my little bro had sex with one of my female friends id give him a hi 5.

we kinda tried to date, but we didn't live in the same town. still communicated regularly though. at the time there wasn't anyone else i was messin' with either, and my roommate (who btw is an old friend and we're still close) knew i wasn't out there doin' dirt. i think me and homegirl probably felt more pressure to try and date because of him, though, but whatever.

also, this wasn't going on forever. not even a year.

if she want a nut and he want a nut, everyone wins.

Cant honestly really say that i *wouldn't* tho

*edit* talking about my sister. I dont care who bangs my cousins

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If a good friend wants to date one of my relatives and said relative agrees, then that is on them regardless of his intentions. Of course I would not want my friend to dog out a relative, but it would also be unfair to assume that my friend would dog out a relative just because he did it to other people. He may decide to act right with my relative.

Now, if I knew that my friend had bad intentions with a relative, then I may warn the relative although It is ultimately her choice to pursue the relationship. I generally stay out of my relatives romantic business. Sometimes, people have to learn lessons the hard way, relatives being no exception. The only time I will get involved is if I witness an act of violence against a relative. Other than that, I mind my own business.

my situation where my boy swears he'll do right by my fam (this time), same things I've heard before from him...and usually he ends treating the person bad

I just don't want to be caught in the middle of some drama in case ish go south




>If a good friend wants to date one of my relatives and said
>relative agrees, then that is on them regardless of his
>intentions. Of course I would not want my friend to dog out a
>relative, but it would also be unfair to assume that my friend
>would dog out a relative just because he did it to other
>people. He may decide to act right with my relative.
>
>Now, if I knew that my friend had bad intentions with a
>relative, then I may warn the relative although It is
>ultimately her choice to pursue the relationship. I generally
>stay out of my relatives romantic business. Sometimes, people
>have to learn lessons the hard way, relatives being no
>exception. The only time I will get involved is if I witness
>an act of violence against a relative. Other than that, I mind
>my own business.

I do not know the circumstances upon which your boy hooked up with your fam, but I am not sure why he would tell you what he told you knowing that he may not know what he would do with your relative.

I agree that you should not be caught up in any drama, should there be any drama, but I also feel that your relative should be able to handle her business without involving those who are not in her relationship.

Speaking for myself, my relatives do not involve me in their affairs, so I do not worry about whatever they are going through, good or bad. All I can do is hope for the best and should they encounter any obstacles, deal with it and move on.

Should your boy do wrong by your fam, then hopefully she will charge him to the game. But, if she decides to involve you in her affairs, then I hope it does not cause any tension between yourself and your boy.

People need to learn how to handle their romantic affairs like mature adults unless it involves acts of violence. Other than that, let them work shut out and go on about your business.

w/her? lol

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He doesn't know.

>He doesn't know.

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Think of the exchange of pussy they must have in Canada, Sweden, etc.

It's plenty of money to be made
from Candler Road to Bankhead
It's plenty of room to get paid
for those that ain't scared

If you meet her through them, it's fighting words.

I don't have a sister and I couldn't care less who my female cousins fuck. A couple of them are, no Inkast-o, very beautiful and I hope they are getting theirs. The others are a mix of slags and lesbos and they can fuck whoever they feel like. If my boy was such a fucking scumbag that I think he would fuck someone in my family over, then why is he my boy?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NgNuVHrEKI

And the ones who aren't I don't care about enough to say something.


"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard