Traveled there many times, so this isn't from a resident's perspective. But, as a black woman, that city was sooooo boring.

There was nothing to do at night that didn't involve a dive bar. No dancing, no night clubs. The nature in Napa, traveling to Yosemite, Big Sur and Oakland was fun.

But I couldn't see the appeal.

I did so much to find a good groove and a guy on the bus told me, this is the wrong city for you. He could tell that I wasn't from SF immediately.