most people can't live with being fucked up so they just pretend nothing happened

I've learned an apology is always the right thing to do, but it wont change the hurt inflicted or even have guarantee you'll be granted forgiveness. maybe this is the attitude people take on when not saying sorry or they convince themselves that you weren't hurt that bad if they never have to face the conversation about it

"closure" with the woman who nearly destroyed me happened 3 years later when we had to work together on something

her: you hated me for a long time

me: I dont hate you today

that was it, no apology or anything