>she gone. long gone. she been stopped caring.
>
>so what's the point of communicating with her any further? Why is it about her though? Why is it not about him and his healing?
>
>now in the instance where you're in it with somebody and y'all
>both tryin to work through some things...i see the point of
>talkin. That is mos def a time to talk lol.
>
>but your boy's scenario? nah, my man needs to leave that
>alone...
>Again, why? Why are we considering her reaction more than his growth? I don't see anything wrong with this... NOW if he writes another after or keeps pinning for her then yeah he's on a sui watch.
>
>***
>I'm tryna be better off, not better than...