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Topic subjectMen, are you tired of having your sexuality exploited?
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12696835, Men, are you tired of having your sexuality exploited?
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:08 AM
95% of websites and advertisements have tits and suggestive imagery wallpapered all over them, and you can't go a day without seeing a pair of tits conveniently placed by a logo or product.

Maybe I don't want to look at tits or think about sex five times a day. Perhaps, one day where my thoughts are not infiltrated by suggesting visuals will leave room for more productive and constructive thinking.

Does society have any concept of love or "making love"? Sperm is a source of life, and yet we are brainwashed into thinking that we need to masturbate or have sex at every and any opportunity. Perhaps there are some benefits of maintaining your sperm count as opposed to rebooting on a daily basis? I've read several articles suggesting that losing your sperm daily plays a part in hair loss, could this be true? Can prostate cancer be a direct result of over fapping considering you work it so much? Would they even tell us considering the media is constantly ramming sex down our throats?

Exhibit A:

http://postimg.org/image/ivq8pf6it/

(I am aware of and use adblock, however, I surf incognito at work to keep my history clear and adblock does not work in incognito mode.)

Am I alone in this thinking?
12696851, log off fam
Posted by John Forte, Tue Jan-13-15 10:20 AM
12696859, don't know how
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:25 AM
12696893, the log out button in the Lobby is a start
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Tue Jan-13-15 10:50 AM
12696899, can't find it
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:53 AM
darn it
12696871, If this is showing up when you're on YouTube you might want talk to
Posted by GrumpySmurf, Tue Jan-13-15 10:34 AM
whoever is using your computer other than you.
12696878, its my work computer, noone else uses it except me
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:40 AM
it was a brand new machine and has never been used to access anything of that nature
12696876, lol...you poor non pussy getting clown.
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Jan-13-15 10:39 AM
#itgetsbetter bro

Wait til spring. Good luck.

12696879, *this is where we compare dick sizes*
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:40 AM
btw, what's a "non pussy" and how do you get it?
12696890, I have no desire to discuss that subject with you sir.
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Jan-13-15 10:48 AM
I see what the issue is you're sexually confused.


does it really matter?

for all my fans who keep my name in their mouth: http://i.imgur.com/v2xNOpS.jpg
12696897, you got all that from my post?
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:53 AM
so, not wanting to have sexual imagery rubbed in your face on a daily basis = sexual confusion?

i'd like to follow your logic but it sounds like insecurity to me. shrug.
12696887, you are the Feds
Posted by atruhead, Tue Jan-13-15 10:47 AM
12696895, lol!
Posted by Binladen, Tue Jan-13-15 10:50 AM
12696894, i get you. wrong audience bro.
Posted by double negative, Tue Jan-13-15 10:50 AM
12696900, not sure i follow
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:54 AM
what entails the right audience for secure men to discuss sexuality with one another?
12696898, everything is somehow sexualized these days
Posted by Atillah Moor, Tue Jan-13-15 10:53 AM
just gotta tun away from it. Or try to.
12696908, doesn't it bother you?
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 10:59 AM
i don't think we need to run from it, i just think we need a healthy balance.

the fallout of having everything sexualized is destructive. as men, we look at women and only see their tits and ass. in turn, women whom see what we oogle at, invest a lot of energy into accentuating their tits and ass, or "enhance" it with plastic, and ultimately sell themselves short.

do we really need to create a plastic world in order to enjoy one another? can't sex be a major part in society without becoming a cancer to love?

are any men truly satisfied? why do married men stray? could it be because they are constantly encouraged to think about sex, and to notice tits and ass? have you ever looked at a woman and wondered about her character, or have you just thought about whether or not you would "i'd tap that". think about how destructive those attitudes can become.
12696951, you're speaking to issues greater than sex
Posted by atruhead, Tue Jan-13-15 11:31 AM

>the fallout of having everything sexualized is destructive. as
>men, we look at women and only see their tits and ass. in
>turn, women whom see what we oogle at, invest a lot of energy
>into accentuating their tits and ass, or "enhance" it with
>plastic, and ultimately sell themselves short.

superficial living is more than sex. women do what they think men find attractive (butt implants), men do the same (fancy cars)


>do we really need to create a plastic world in order to enjoy
>one another? can't sex be a major part in society without
>becoming a cancer to love?

people use sex to form connections no matter how fleeting or shallow, because emotions are difficult and erratic. also sex physically feels better than a physiological emotional bond



>are any men truly satisfied?

I dont know

>why do married men stray?

marriages and the rest of life require a ton of energy, it can be difficult for a sex life to be strong. But if there's a side piece who only has one function, that answers your question


could
>it be because they are constantly encouraged to think about
>sex, and to notice tits and ass?

no


have you ever looked at a
>woman and wondered about her character

no, that isnt how eyes work. we process what we see

or have you just
>thought about whether or not you would "tap that". think
>about how destructive those attitudes can become.

nothing is destructive about visual attraction


12696978, RE: you're speaking to issues greater than sex
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:53 AM

>superficial living is more than sex. women do what they think
>men find attractive (butt implants), men do the same (fancy
>cars)

but it is superficial isn't it? is that all we can hope for in terms of the way we socially communicate with one another? maybe i can't afford a fancy car, where does that leave me in the pecking order?

>people use sex to form connections no matter how fleeting or
>shallow, because emotions are difficult and erratic. also sex
>physically feels better than a physiological emotional bond

hmm. do you choose and hope to achieve perfect physicality over emotional control?

you're right of-course that emotions are difficult and erratic, but, i think that beast can be tamed. i think in many ways, emotions are programmed impulses we have trained ourselves to have. all these patterns can be changed and unlearned, we can gain full control on how we emotionally react to just about anything.



>>why do married men stray?
>
>marriages and the rest of life require a ton of energy, it can
>be difficult for a sex life to be strong. But if there's a
>side piece who only has one function, that answers your
>question
>

I'm not married so that's why I ask. Why can't the wife be the side piece? Is it because she doesn't have any energy either, or perhaps, maybe it has a bit to do with the constant social programming of getting as much ass as possible?


> have you ever looked at a
>>woman and wondered about her character
>
>no, that isnt how eyes work. we process what we see

I'm speaking about the way we process and why.

>
>nothing is destructive about visual attraction
>

All that glitters is not gold.
12696970, How invasive it's become bothers me
Posted by Atillah Moor, Tue Jan-13-15 11:46 AM
I remember as a teen I got too into porn (tapes at the time) and I committed to not purchasing them or anything and was actually doing a very good job at it. Then internet porn just took off and it was like-- it was easy to avoid when you had to go to some seedy place to get it, but now it's in my house with little to no buffer or barrier save for my self control.
12696981, Exactly
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:54 AM
It's in our faces, all the time, every day. When I was younger, a suggestive picture of a woman in a short skirt was enough to have me watch porn to follow that through. Getting self control over that was not easy.
12696905, I do get your point, we're inundated with it
Posted by atruhead, Tue Jan-13-15 10:57 AM
between tumblr and porn sites, what used to be taboo has become the norm and it has warped our minds

but I still think you're the Feds
12696910, i want to have a daughter someday
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:01 AM
i fear i'm going to bring her into a world full of men who will look at her as nothing but an object they can use to satisfy their perversion with, and i fear she will become brainwashed into thinking that her physicality can be used to manipulate and exploit. i think these are real concerns men need to work out.

don't blow my cover. i got quota's to meet.
12696954, every man should hope to succeed as a father
Posted by atruhead, Tue Jan-13-15 11:33 AM
12696982, True.
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:55 AM
12696913, Hi, Case
Posted by MME, Tue Jan-13-15 11:03 AM
12696924, ^^ So desparate.
Posted by Case_One, Tue Jan-13-15 11:15 AM

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"America, stop turning our Court Houses of Justice into Dens for Justified Murderers."
12697025, ^^^ So obvious.
Posted by MME, Tue Jan-13-15 12:18 PM
12696955, I'd be more bothered as a woman.
Posted by Deadzombie, Tue Jan-13-15 11:33 AM
all these sexy bodies that don't look like mine.

men drool and I just notice while thinking, 'I guess that's what they like'
12696990, that's definitely a big part of the problem
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:59 AM
women living in doubt and insecurity because the status quo has given us idols of perfect women which are not even human anymore. photoshop != humanity.
12696964, you will never catch me complaining about looking at titties
Posted by makaveli, Tue Jan-13-15 11:37 AM
titties. I love them.
12696973, You're threatening the status quo and the foundation of hyper-masculinity
Posted by Brotha Sun, Tue Jan-13-15 11:49 AM
Good luck with that lol
12696987, lol, true
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 11:58 AM
Talk about going up against an army, haha, but still, I'm sure many of us have thought about it, and many of us have thought about our own emotions as men, and many of us, have cast them off to the side and continued with conquest as the status quo has suggested.

We live in a social culture based on a fearful attitude (God and nature is what we fear), and a fearful attitude to reality which makes all of us feel as if we don't belong on this planet, and thus, we set out to conquer it. The two great symbols of man are the rocket (to conquer space) and the bulldozer.
12697188, You know incognito mode does really protect you right?
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Tue Jan-13-15 01:41 PM
IT can still see all that stuff
12697311, Yes I know.
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Jan-13-15 02:28 PM
12697240, Actually according to studies frequent ejaculation prevents prostate cancer
Posted by Deacon Blues, Tue Jan-13-15 02:00 PM