Which I don't know is an achievement except for there were a plenty of moments when I thought to do one or the other and I said "naw, no need".

Slightly curious to see how long I can go without either. I don't think there would be any great benefit to doing neither and I am pretty sure it will make me a more irritable person, but I am curious to see how long I have the will power to go without.


Anyone willing to join the challenge?

If you would but don't like the prospects of going without for too long I can assure you that I doubt I will make it to the end of the week. But I know I could make it longer if there were others in on the challenge.

I have eaten more ice cream than usual in this time period. Less I replace sweets with alcohol and self pleasure and become a fat boy, I will add desert and soda to the list of things to abstain from.

Who will join me.


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lol which is a lot for me

i went too hard for new year's. 3 day hangover. it wasn't a good time.

alcohol and i need to see other people for a spell

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It was so bad that I'm considering skipping Ghost & Rae this Thursday. I almost feel like it would be greedy & hedonistic to go (which is stupid, I know).

But I'm sure that I'll be drinking again by next week.

i went hard one NYE at Reg's house and almost threw up on his bed

after that (and the horrible hangover that followed), i decided i need to cool out-especially if i'm far from home or at someone else's house

i've been DJing or been too far from home every NYE since so i've been pretty good

this past NYE i was close to home and drank but i also had a huge domincan dinner right before the festivities so i barely got buzzed and woke up fresh as a daisy :)

i have another batch of friends starting next week (it's one's friends birthday this week)

i think i'll join them but give myself a pass when i have a gig. lol

if anything it saves $. and calories.

ive been eating horribly because i got suspended from the coop. im just one more make-up away from being able to shop again. i'm going to hump the kale section.

>i think i'll join them but give myself a pass when i have a
>gig. lol

I've had very good sets both sober and wasted, but most of the time I'm drinking one or two to get me at the "sweet spot". I'm thinking a "no hard alcohol" line, or "no drinking when not djing" might be the move.

i actually don't/won't drink until i feel comfortable in my set
i can't say it gets better after that but i'm warmed up and can relax and have a drink

and if im spinning im drinking for free so why not?

I wanna try going for the rest of the month with out either
Starting from this past Sunday, cause I kinda got plastered(no fappo) Saturday,
I couldn't help it, twas a family gathering.

But yeah I accept the challenge
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miserable niggas yo
cant let nobody have nothing
"god save the queen pip pip cheerio tea time princess di" ass niggas (c)white desus

Keep me posted how it works out.

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I've drank some sort of alcohol every day since the year started.

Sigh.

I'm doing Paleo again so I'm getting rid of diary and other stuff anyway. Might as well add wine to the list. Ugh, I don't wanna but I wanna see how far I can go.

like i honestly regret forcing myself to like it back in the day.

i drink so much of it now. it's my kryptonite.

I had to force myself to like wine. Like, I actively told myself that as an adult I should like things like wine.

Lawd.

Now I don't have to pretend that I like the stuff because I actually do.

at dinner

this was when i was v. young and my first job had us taking lots of clients out.

she said "either you have water or wine. but not a rye and coke" (LOL..i can't believe i'd do that).

so i'm like fuck that..i'm not passing up free booze

and the rest is tipsy history. :(

for socializing without embarrassing yourself. I think beer is the same way.

I have an annual cycle where I drink only beer for a long period of time, then I forgot why I don't drink mixed drinks, start putting mix drinks in the rotation and then have an incident where I feel embarrassed myself and swear off mixed drinks...until I forget why I swore off mixed drinks.



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for socializing without embarrassing yourself. I think beer is the same way.

I have an annual cycle where I drink only beer for a long period of time, then I forgot why I don't drink mixed drinks, start putting mix drinks in the rotation and then have an incident where I feel embarrassed myself and swear off mixed drinks...until I forget why I swore off mixed drinks.



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Truth is I am not much of a work week drinker so it's nothing to not drink all week.

But during the weekend I gets it in. The last 4 weeks feel like one long weekend.

And fapping is like shaving to me, I don't do it every day but it's part of the morning routine and I don't give it much thought.



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post was going to be about.

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Instead I now know you get your morning fap on in-between sips of Maxwell House and swipes of your Gilette mach 3 razor.

You are something else, Buddy.

>Instead I now know you get your morning fap on in-between
>sips of Maxwell House and swipes of your Gilette mach 3
>razor.
>
>You are something else, Buddy.


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i actually quietly trained myself to be satisfied and wavy after one drink.

i was going good.

then this weekend.

i blame ko. such an enabler

i was at the coop doing a makeup.
i wanted to come though :(
but i needs mah kale

which would technically spill over into the new year

>which would technically spill over into the new year


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that's my problem with vices....i ENJOY them. it'd be one thing if i didn't like doing them. but i like drinking, i like smoking marijuana, and i enjoy masturbating. i am going to stop smoking tobacco tho. maybe. fuck man....i don't know.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

why?
don't do that. lol.

so no....i do not smoke cigarettes.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

lol it hit ny for two seconds

nah b dont do that no more
i cosign all other vices though. lol

the craze is still kinda going on. i had quit for 3 months, then the brought out the wood tips, and it's been a problem ever since.

i got one of those e-vapes and all kinds of delicious flavors of oils, but apparently i like the taste of carcinogens.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

I just stay jealous of people with good habits/vices like those people who LOVE to work out.

The only positive habit I have is that I am a non-stop reader but even that can have a downside when I find myself reading shit I know I would be smarter for NOT reading like many OKP posts (maybe even this one).




>that's my problem with vices....i ENJOY them. it'd be one
>thing if i didn't like doing them. but i like drinking, i like
>smoking marijuana, and i enjoy masturbating. i am going to
>stop smoking tobacco tho. maybe. fuck man....i don't know.
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>it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're
>strangers.
>
>not compassionate....only polite.
>
>I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.


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I just stay jealous of people with good habits/vices like those people who LOVE to work out.

The only positive habit I have is that I am a non-stop reader but even that can have a downside when I find myself reading shit I know I would be smarter for NOT reading like many OKP posts (maybe even this one).




>that's my problem with vices....i ENJOY them. it'd be one
>thing if i didn't like doing them. but i like drinking, i like
>smoking marijuana, and i enjoy masturbating. i am going to
>stop smoking tobacco tho. maybe. fuck man....i don't know.
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>it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're
>strangers.
>
>not compassionate....only polite.
>
>I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.


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leads to prostate issues.

It got to a point where I had to pick my poisons. Booze didn't make the list. It's kind of subtle the effects drinking has for most people but you notice them once they are gone.

I haven't fapped in a while either (like a month) but that's just a biproduct of being oversexed.

and your body no longer has to rid itself of it.

If anyone is suffering from bad hangovers, it's a good sign that your kidney's are experiencing a dangerous level of damage. The reason why anyone is "hungover" is because the body has not finished purifying itself. The older you get, the longer and harder the hangovers become. It's basically a sure sign of failing health.

If you would like to help your kidneys and liver, try going on a regiment of Flax Seed Oil. It has regenerative powers that restore kidney function.

i had kidney stones and at that point i stopped drinking liquor and later cut out beer, too.

it's just taxing, staying hydrated and focused becomes harder and i was still young (late 20s) when I stopped. i was just a social drinker then it became maybe once or twice a year to where now i just never have any.

i never had any related complications but it's crazy that i know a few people who did at that age. they were all heavy drinkers but damn, to be like 28 with gout or some sort of heart issue, that's brutal.

Out of anything that I have used in this lifetime, alcohol has been the most destructive. I agree with you that it's taxing. I used to drink a lot more when I was younger and I hated waking up and checking my wallet to find it completely empty, and then seeing multiple withdrawal bank statements. That, plus the physical hangover and I was full of regret. Not to mention all the other destructive avenues alcohol led me to for some time. I suppose it was a good experience in the sense that it taught me about the value of my health. I think that is my primary concern right now.

I have a few friends who drink and do drugs excessively. They will stay up for 2 to 3 days sometimes, funny thing is, most of them are really successful, but I can't imagine their bodies maintaining this level of damage for too long. We need healthy organs for the second half of our lives, more than we really care to think about when we are younger.

.

The last time I drank was Christmas.....

Wait, hol'up, I had a Dos Equis on Saturday at lunch while watching the game.....but just one, does that count?

Anywho, I'm in. That Pineapple Ciroc at the crib ain't going nowhere
And I'll chill on the pron and fapping

after this post

if i break, i'll man up and admit it. this will be hard. got a stack of books in the queue which will make this easier

I checked out every single picture in this set.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/mariesouthardospina/what-does-a-size-16-look-like-in-10-different-bran-17s7s#.gaRPm0gEx


I should add that for now this is extra difficult because the wife isn't really speaking to me because of my NYE Shenanigans. Not so sure how long that will last which is having a compounding effect.



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I didn't think I acted too much the fool but the depth of the silence treatment got me thinking I am forgetting something. We were all terribly bent though so the general drunkenness I am sure wasn't a pretty picture.

The problem is in the last 15 days I've been out drinking hard 8 times and 3 of them ended up not being a pretty picture.



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I haven't fapped either.

I fully intend to next week 'doe. Holding out makes Mo a grumpy girl.

be bad for me and those around me if I stopped jerking off.

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so I can go all of January without doing one of the two though I already had a drink with friends over the weekend at dinner

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First off I feel like a Southern Preacher because all of a sudden it seems like SEX is everywhere. Commercials. Billboards. SMH.

Also realize I don't enjoy football as much without a brew in my hand.

I've also notice that sometimes you do some stuff just because it's a habit and part of a routine not so much because you have a burning desire to do it.

It is like a reflex to grab for a beer when lounging around the house on Sunday watching football.

I've also notice that I am developing a sweet tooth. I walked 8 blocks out the way this morning to get some krispee kreme donuts.


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>First off I feel like a Southern Preacher because all of a
>sudden it seems like SEX is everywhere. Commercials.
>Billboards. SMH.
>
>Also realize I don't enjoy football as much without a brew in
>my hand.
>
>I've also notice that sometimes you do some stuff just because
>it's a habit and part of a routine not so much because you
>have a burning desire to do it.
>
>It is like a reflex to grab for a beer when lounging around
>the house on Sunday watching football.
>
>I've also notice that I am developing a sweet tooth. I walked
>8 blocks out the way this morning to get some krispee kreme
>donuts.
>
>
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Not the Donuts bro!!!... I only get krispy kremes when the hot donut sign is on...

--- is it ok if I start over.. I had a setback...

im ready again

Had alcoholic brunch on the 1st, but ive been clean since then.

Problems: Sweet tooth like you said (goddammit, the body just wants a vice, doesn’t it).

Not drinking has been fine outside of just wanting to do so out of habit. Its saved my wallet a bunch even when I eat out. I do see myself crankier though; I figured the stress of my job would get me after a particular rough day. That hasn’t been the problem(cause its been a rough two weeks and each time I got home I didn't feel the urge) but I do think the stress of the job has been creeping into real life and the alcohol kept it at bay.

Like yesterday I had specific things I wanted to do but couldn’t because I invited someone and their lateness threw everything into a loop….still got to do some cool shit but I was pretty annoyed and I have a sneaking suspicion if I snuck a couple of beers in there everything would have been gravy (or if the work week wasn't as stressful).

Drank Saturday (all day)
Friday (all night)
Thursday (I didn't mean to, it just happened)

I honestly forgot about this challenge, but I'll start again tomorrow.

gonna have a long weekend of drinking

fell off saturday

2 glasses of wine that felt like i had 4. impressive how quickly the body bounces "back"

If you try again, I'd do it. Maybe.

actually, nah.

i'm sorry. it just ...i have so few things that bring me joy these days.

lol

:(

=/

does need this.

Keep sippin sista.


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i drink like 2 nights a week, 2 - 3 glasses each night.

that's very much in the realm of normalcy, no?

do you drink much more?

I never drink alone and don't drink because I am having a hard time dealing with something. If it's a professional gathering I drink plenty without acting the fool.

My only problem is if I decide to go hard or get too excited (like old friends in town), there is no turning the switch off.

Binge drinking was fun while in school and in my younger party days, but I'm too old to be "that guy".



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Its still a good thing if you cut back...

My stated goal was to not do it in January and maybe have my first drink after Superbowl Sunday but I had enough stuff going on where I wasn't in the mood to drink. Now that it's been so long I think I want to save it for a special occasion. Not particularly in a rush to drink.


Oh the fap part, I didn't last a week on that.

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>My stated goal was to not do it in January and maybe have my
>first drink after Superbowl Sunday but I had enough stuff
>going on where I wasn't in the mood to drink. Now that it's
>been so long I think I want to save it for a special occasion.
>Not particularly in a rush to drink.
>
>
>Oh the fap part, I didn't last a week on that.
>
dang you were my hero up to this last part^^^..

cigs
e-cigs
weed
blow
sweets
snacks
soda
milk
faps

(oh, and i don't drink in the first place, so thats why thats not there)

the cigs are for good
the rest of it is a 2-month breather
come march ill bring most of them back in MODERATION (this is the key)

was rocking black tights with a black top that was also totally form-fitting, with a basic denim overshirt only, unbuttoned, all of which is showing her crazy body to go with her dope smile, hair, and her innuendos she repeats/throws out there ("just the tip! haha"). i've mentally already taken a no-fap L.