After the baby goes down, it's just us and some wine. It doesn't even have to be sex. It's just time to reconnect as spouses, not parents.

2.) Getaways

Baby turned six months right around Christmas. Met the parents in Atlanta, passed her off and spent the weekend hanging out, shopping, dining, working out, etc. It cost a grip, but it was worth it.

Bottom line: If you do not purposefully build 'us' time, your baby will suck it all away.