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12682303, ppl who have given birth : what shld i put in my hospital bag? Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 11:31 AM
i'm 30 weeks tomorrow and i need this bag packed asap for my sanity i am a particular person (to put it lightly) and i dont wanna have the babies in the car because i take forever dictating what to grab to my husband
i bought three new tank tops and three pairs of cute socks i am looking for a short robe that i can breastfeed in after they are born i am writing my granola birth plan this week i need a play list cookies or something for the nursing staff what else? my bradley method teacher recommended something for soft lighting will they let me deliver in my own clothes? what wld i be most comfortable in? ummmmmmmmmmmm
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12682311, you know Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 11:35 AM
i don't really think i went all out with this i knew i wanted to be comfortable i just packed some comfortable pjs that would be easy to nurse in, something that wraps in the front is fine, or actually just a lose tank top fitting pjs. a nursing bra, i was able to buy one at the hospital and it was the same price as online. i really recommend the brand anita.
i had clothes to go home in and one or two outfits for him to leave the hospital in. i don't know how your hospital is but ours gave us tons of baby blankets, diapers and even onesies. we ended up not really needing most of what we were told to pack. however, k was born in the summer and it's cold as hell there so you'll be packing so much more.
nipple pads and nipple cream they gave me a free breast pump, like a tiny plastic one but i used that throughout the first 8 months. you might want an industrial once since you're feeding two.
oh i had my laptop there but my room ended up having tv with cable, lol. and my hospital food was actually pretty good. honestly you'll be so tired you'll probably just sleep.
i can't really think of much else.
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12682416, RE: you know Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:09 PM
>i don't really think i went all out with this >i knew i wanted to be comfortable >i just packed some comfortable pjs that would be easy to nurse >in, something that wraps in the front is fine, or actually >just a lose tank top fitting pjs. a nursing bra, i was able to >buy one at the hospital and it was the same price as online. i >really recommend the brand anita.
oh duh yeah i think i need to buy some of these today lol
>nipple pads and nipple cream >they gave me a free breast pump, like a tiny plastic one but i >used that throughout the first 8 months. you might want an >industrial once since you're feeding two.
obama care mandates your insurance gives you two! i have two nice ones ready to go v exciting lol
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12682315, the contents of my go bag: Posted by JellyBean, Mon Dec-22-14 11:37 AM
pads--the big thick ones full brief drawls soft comfortable shoes nursing bra/nursing pads socks books my phone charger baby's go home outfit baby's hospital pictures outfit $12 money order for the baby's Birth Certificate camera + extra sd card batteries for my camera Pajamas Pajamas that looked like lounge wear that could be worn home I also brought my laptop
the one thing I left home was lotion...my god mother bought me the biggest bottle of Jergan's I had ever seen...I actually just finished using it a few months ago (4 years later)
*edit* my mom actually brought an empty bag with her as she would empty out the cart everytime they would bring the baby in.
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12682399, yup Posted by labcoat, Mon Dec-22-14 01:01 PM
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12682417, this is super helpful, thanks Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:10 PM
>pads--the big thick ones
i heard they give you good ones in hospital lol
>*edit* my mom actually brought an empty bag with her as she >would empty out the cart everytime they would bring the baby >in.
lol smart
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12682367, snacks, flip flops Posted by unfukwitable, Mon Dec-22-14 12:31 PM
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12682418, yes to the flip flops Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:10 PM
i wlda totally forgotten that
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12682382, gatorade for the both of you. Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Mon Dec-22-14 12:40 PM
and perhaps a blunt for afterwards?
that shit is like... the most intense relay race there is. i was running around the room nonstop catching comment and holding hands and bringing water and wiping forehead and face.
all the while trying not to vomit and cry in horror.
luckily the labor was quick. try to bowchickawowow the night before. worked like a charm. spent one hour watching her breakdance.
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12682421, haha i dont think a twin delivery will be quick Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:11 PM
we'll see though!
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12682403, where are you giving birth? Posted by labcoat, Mon Dec-22-14 01:02 PM
>will they let me deliver in my own clothes?
ive never heard of this question? why wouldn't you just wear a hospital gown?
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12682423, at a hospital Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:12 PM
> >>will they let me deliver in my own clothes? > >ive never heard of this question? >why wouldn't you just wear a hospital gown?
bc i am particular i wld much rather be in my own clothing rather than some thin, used-by-a-million-people hospital gown some hospitals seem to let you and some dont we have a tour tonight so i'm gonna ask
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12682944, they let my wife wear her own gown thingy Posted by Government Name, Tue Dec-23-14 09:02 AM
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12682414, Your husband's toiletries... Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:08 PM
I was stuck at the hospital with no toothbrush, no deodorant, and no lotion because we were focused on her stuff.
Oh, and pack an extra bag for all the stuff you're gonna get while you're there (gifts, kid supplies, etc.).
We walked out with two big ass garbage bags of stuff because we only packed for coming and not going.
my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/ my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com
*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
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12682424, thats a good point Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:13 PM
poor dads
>I was stuck at the hospital with no toothbrush, no deodorant, >and no lotion because we were focused on her stuff. > >Oh, and pack an extra bag for all the stuff you're gonna get >while you're there (gifts, kid supplies, etc.). > >We walked out with two big ass garbage bags of stuff because >we only packed for coming and not going. > > >my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: >http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/ >my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com > >*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
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12682426, And make sure people bring food for HIM too... Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:16 PM
The hospital only covers your meals, so when the food comes to the room, ain't gonna be shit for him lest you loan a couple of fries or a bite of your sandwich.
If you're putting in special orders for outside food (see: sushi), make sure you get enough for him too.
We spent three days in that hospital and I only took one shower and ate two meals. 110% of your needs are taken care of, 0% of his are.
my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/ my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com
*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
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12682442, well it sounds like you are offering yourself up for this Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:28 PM
hehehe burgers from shake shack please!
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12682472, He knows that I'm here for fatherhood resources... Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:46 PM
As the Sr. Dad of the crew, I'm always here to provide perspective and booze.
Oh, and get him some golf supplies for Christmas, we need to add another to our group.
my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/ my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com
*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
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12682558, when my wife was down we doubled up on the meals for me too Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 03:02 PM
but i usually would go down to the cafe and get us whatever was the hot plate of the day which would be different from what they were serving in the rooms well, it would be the same stuff but MORE choices if you walked down to the cafe.
of course, when them bills started rolling in they was hittin us over the head for $9.95 for each additional meal we ordered
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12682444, pjs and underwear Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 01:30 PM
i was in a hospital gown the whole time tho. was in pain from the csection plus trying to breastfeed and really couldnt be bothered to put on anything else
edited to add i had forgotten toiletries but my husband brought me some
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12682456, how was your c section recovery? Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:35 PM
my doctors made me schedule one because the twin i will deliver first is currently breech i am hoping he or she will turn but i know i need to start thinking seriously abt the possibility of a c section
>i was in a hospital gown the whole time tho. >was in pain from the csection plus trying to breastfeed >and really couldnt be bothered >to put on anything else > >edited to add i had forgotten toiletries but my husband >brought me some
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12682521, first few days was bad. couldnt get up & needed a catheter Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 02:41 PM
after i left the hospital it was about a month before i felt pretty normal except for a numbness around the scar. bending down want painful but felt some discomfort at times. that numb feeling stuck around for months. the discomfort went away before the numb feeling did
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12682555, i was up walking the next day. Posted by morpheme, Mon Dec-22-14 03:00 PM
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12682724, i walked on the 3rd day like jesus Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 05:47 PM
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12682812, more for clarification Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 09:21 PM
i'm counting the actual day the boy was snatched from my womb since he was born in the morning, as day one. day two was a no go. day three i was much better and i was able to walk.
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12682850, me too Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 11:12 PM
my c-section was cake compared to my fibroid surgery THAT shit made me feel like i was going to die
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12682458, Omg this might be tmi Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 01:36 PM
But whatever your "manicuring" regiment is, do it BEFORE you go to the hospital. Like a week before your due date. I forgot and was practically scalped by and old Egyptian woman in front of my MIL. It was so embarrassing.
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12682541, yup. i gave my wife a lineup a week before The Album dropped Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 02:55 PM
she like a low cesaer with that puerto rican razor edge
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12682459, Omg this might be tmi Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 01:36 PM
But whatever your "manicuring" regiment is, do it BEFORE you go to the hospital. Like a week before your due date. I forgot and was practically scalped by and old Egyptian woman in front of my MIL. It was so embarrassing.
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12682536, we dont like hospital linens so BATH TOWELS Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 02:52 PM
yeah they will give you an endless supply of their 85 thread count quick dry towels but we like the softness and familiarness of our home washed towels
just pack like you're going on a weekend vacation just dont take so many outfits i'd say 2-3 sweatsuits and two cute outfits 1. for the day when your "big group" of family will come thru (you want to be cute and pretty for all the pics)
2. for the day you are paroled (gotta be fly for all the popparazzi that will be outside them glass doors)
also, what was said above YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS STUFF TOO
and most importantly of all CELLPHONE AND DIGICAM CHARGERS
cannot stress that enough
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12682548, decent lotions... Posted by morpheme, Mon Dec-22-14 02:58 PM
you don't want to be at the mercy of keri.
an emery board.
a pillow with a satin pillow case.
handheld mirror.
tweezers.
i'm vain, may.
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12682720, according to my sis preparation h Posted by LittleTortilla, Mon Dec-22-14 05:43 PM
my friend brought her own adorable gowns and pillow cases. not sure if she gave birth in them or if they were just for the post photo ops.
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12682805, this might be a weird/geeky one Posted by lfresh, Mon Dec-22-14 09:00 PM
But I was in the hospital this summer and I'm a gadget fiend But I figure with a photo happy husband btwn the two of you and visitors Things are going to need charging I had two phones and a ipad to charge There simply weren't enough outlets (or outlets within reach) so Travel outlet/extension cord http://officesupplygeek.com/office-electronics/outlets-to-go-portable-extension-cord-expander-and-usb-charger/ Had mine from my trip to LA And that thing came in handy esp for visitors
~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
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12682851, this reminds me of this episode, lol Posted by sixteenstone, Mon Dec-22-14 11:14 PM
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x152qxt_i-love-lucy-lucy-goes-to-the-hospital_tv
:)
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12682891, a folder Posted by samsara, Tue Dec-23-14 02:52 AM
for all of the documents, papers you will get a pen your pediatrician and ob/gyn 's numbers so you can schedule follow up appts while you are still in the hospital
lip balm
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12682917, Hospital food sucks so have folks bring meals Posted by unfukwitable, Tue Dec-23-14 07:21 AM
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