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12682303, ppl who have given birth : what shld i put in my hospital bag?
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 11:31 AM
i'm 30 weeks tomorrow and i need this bag packed asap for my sanity
i am a particular person (to put it lightly) and i dont wanna have the babies in the car because i take forever dictating what to grab to my husband

i bought three new tank tops and three pairs of cute socks
i am looking for a short robe that i can breastfeed in after they are born
i am writing my granola birth plan this week
i need a play list
cookies or something for the nursing staff
what else?
my bradley method teacher recommended something for soft lighting
will they let me deliver in my own clothes?
what wld i be most comfortable in?
ummmmmmmmmmmm
12682311, you know
Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 11:35 AM
i don't really think i went all out with this
i knew i wanted to be comfortable
i just packed some comfortable pjs that would be easy to nurse in, something that wraps in the front is fine, or actually just a lose tank top fitting pjs. a nursing bra, i was able to buy one at the hospital and it was the same price as online. i really recommend the brand anita.

i had clothes to go home in and one or two outfits for him to leave the hospital in. i don't know how your hospital is but ours gave us tons of baby blankets, diapers and even onesies. we ended up not really needing most of what we were told to pack. however, k was born in the summer and it's cold as hell there so you'll be packing so much more.

nipple pads and nipple cream
they gave me a free breast pump, like a tiny plastic one but i used that throughout the first 8 months. you might want an industrial once since you're feeding two.

oh i had my laptop there but my room ended up having tv with cable, lol. and my hospital food was actually pretty good. honestly you'll be so tired you'll probably just sleep.

i can't really think of much else.
12682416, RE: you know
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:09 PM
>i don't really think i went all out with this
>i knew i wanted to be comfortable
>i just packed some comfortable pjs that would be easy to nurse
>in, something that wraps in the front is fine, or actually
>just a lose tank top fitting pjs. a nursing bra, i was able to
>buy one at the hospital and it was the same price as online. i
>really recommend the brand anita.

oh duh
yeah i think i need to buy some of these today lol



>nipple pads and nipple cream
>they gave me a free breast pump, like a tiny plastic one but i
>used that throughout the first 8 months. you might want an
>industrial once since you're feeding two.

obama care mandates your insurance gives you two!
i have two nice ones ready to go
v exciting lol
12682315, the contents of my go bag:
Posted by JellyBean, Mon Dec-22-14 11:37 AM
pads--the big thick ones
full brief drawls
soft comfortable shoes
nursing bra/nursing pads
socks
books
my phone charger
baby's go home outfit
baby's hospital pictures outfit
$12 money order for the baby's Birth Certificate
camera + extra sd card
batteries for my camera
Pajamas
Pajamas that looked like lounge wear that could be worn home
I also brought my laptop


the one thing I left home was lotion...my god mother bought me the biggest bottle of Jergan's I had ever seen...I actually just finished using it a few months ago (4 years later)

*edit* my mom actually brought an empty bag with her as she would empty out the cart everytime they would bring the baby in.
12682399, yup
Posted by labcoat, Mon Dec-22-14 01:01 PM
12682417, this is super helpful, thanks
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:10 PM
>pads--the big thick ones

i heard they give you good ones in hospital lol


>*edit* my mom actually brought an empty bag with her as she
>would empty out the cart everytime they would bring the baby
>in.

lol
smart
12682367, snacks, flip flops
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12682418, yes to the flip flops
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:10 PM
i wlda totally forgotten that

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12682382, gatorade for the both of you.
Posted by Bruce Belafonte, Mon Dec-22-14 12:40 PM
and perhaps a blunt for afterwards?

that shit is like... the most intense relay race there is. i was running around the room nonstop catching comment and holding hands and bringing water and wiping forehead and face.

all the while trying not to vomit and cry in horror.

luckily the labor was quick. try to bowchickawowow the night before. worked like a charm. spent one hour watching her breakdance.
12682421, haha i dont think a twin delivery will be quick
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:11 PM
we'll see though!
12682403, where are you giving birth?
Posted by labcoat, Mon Dec-22-14 01:02 PM

>will they let me deliver in my own clothes?

ive never heard of this question?
why wouldn't you just wear a hospital gown?


12682423, at a hospital
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:12 PM
>
>>will they let me deliver in my own clothes?
>
>ive never heard of this question?
>why wouldn't you just wear a hospital gown?

bc i am particular
i wld much rather be in my own clothing rather than some thin, used-by-a-million-people hospital gown
some hospitals seem to let you and some dont
we have a tour tonight so i'm gonna ask

12682944, they let my wife wear her own gown thingy
Posted by Government Name, Tue Dec-23-14 09:02 AM
12682414, Your husband's toiletries...
Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:08 PM
I was stuck at the hospital with no toothbrush, no deodorant, and no lotion because we were focused on her stuff.

Oh, and pack an extra bag for all the stuff you're gonna get while you're there (gifts, kid supplies, etc.).

We walked out with two big ass garbage bags of stuff because we only packed for coming and not going.


my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/
my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com

*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
12682424, thats a good point
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:13 PM
poor dads

>I was stuck at the hospital with no toothbrush, no deodorant,
>and no lotion because we were focused on her stuff.
>
>Oh, and pack an extra bag for all the stuff you're gonna get
>while you're there (gifts, kid supplies, etc.).
>
>We walked out with two big ass garbage bags of stuff because
>we only packed for coming and not going.
>
>
>my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right:
>http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/
>my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com
>
>*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
12682426, And make sure people bring food for HIM too...
Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:16 PM
The hospital only covers your meals, so when the food comes to the room, ain't gonna be shit for him lest you loan a couple of fries or a bite of your sandwich.

If you're putting in special orders for outside food (see: sushi), make sure you get enough for him too.

We spent three days in that hospital and I only took one shower and ate two meals. 110% of your needs are taken care of, 0% of his are.



my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/
my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com

*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
12682442, well it sounds like you are offering yourself up for this
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:28 PM
hehehe
burgers from shake shack please!
12682472, He knows that I'm here for fatherhood resources...
Posted by CRichMonkey, Mon Dec-22-14 01:46 PM
As the Sr. Dad of the crew, I'm always here to provide perspective and booze.

Oh, and get him some golf supplies for Christmas, we need to add another to our group.




my avy: Deep in your heart, you know he's right: http://coreyrichardsonneedsajob.com/
my hustle: http://SupaSoulSounds.com

*RIP: John T. "220v" Richardson, Blessing Benson, and Dilla*
12682558, when my wife was down we doubled up on the meals for me too
Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 03:02 PM
but i usually would go down to the cafe and get us whatever was the hot plate of the day
which would be different from what they were serving in the rooms
well, it would be the same stuff but MORE choices if you walked down to the cafe.



of course, when them bills started rolling in they was hittin us over the head for $9.95 for each additional meal we ordered
12682444, pjs and underwear
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 01:30 PM
i was in a hospital gown the whole time tho.
was in pain from the csection plus trying to breastfeed
and really couldnt be bothered
to put on anything else

edited to add i had forgotten toiletries but my husband brought me some
12682456, how was your c section recovery?
Posted by kinetic20, Mon Dec-22-14 01:35 PM
my doctors made me schedule one because the twin i will deliver first is currently breech
i am hoping he or she will turn but i know i need to start thinking seriously abt the possibility of a c section




>i was in a hospital gown the whole time tho.
>was in pain from the csection plus trying to breastfeed
>and really couldnt be bothered
>to put on anything else
>
>edited to add i had forgotten toiletries but my husband
>brought me some
12682521, first few days was bad. couldnt get up & needed a catheter
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 02:41 PM
after i left the hospital it was about a month before i felt pretty normal except for a numbness around the scar. bending down want painful but felt some discomfort at times. that numb feeling stuck around for months. the discomfort went away before the numb feeling did

12682555, i was up walking the next day.
Posted by morpheme, Mon Dec-22-14 03:00 PM
12682724, i walked on the 3rd day like jesus
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 05:47 PM
12682812, more for clarification
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Mon Dec-22-14 09:21 PM
i'm counting the actual day the boy was snatched from my womb since he was born in the morning, as day one.
day two was a no go.
day three i was much better and i was able to walk.

12682850, me too
Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 11:12 PM
my c-section was cake compared to my fibroid surgery
THAT shit made me feel like i was going to die
12682458, Omg this might be tmi
Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 01:36 PM
But whatever your "manicuring" regiment is, do it BEFORE you go to the hospital. Like a week before your due date. I forgot and was practically scalped by and old Egyptian woman in front of my MIL. It was so embarrassing.
12682541, yup. i gave my wife a lineup a week before The Album dropped
Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 02:55 PM
she like a low cesaer with that puerto rican razor edge
12682459, Omg this might be tmi
Posted by GirlChild, Mon Dec-22-14 01:36 PM
But whatever your "manicuring" regiment is, do it BEFORE you go to the hospital. Like a week before your due date. I forgot and was practically scalped by and old Egyptian woman in front of my MIL. It was so embarrassing.
12682536, we dont like hospital linens so BATH TOWELS
Posted by deejboram, Mon Dec-22-14 02:52 PM
yeah they will give you an endless supply of their 85 thread count quick dry towels
but we like the softness and familiarness of our home washed towels

just pack like you're going on a weekend vacation
just dont take so many outfits
i'd say 2-3 sweatsuits
and two cute outfits
1. for the day when your "big group" of family will come thru (you want to be cute and pretty for all the pics)

2. for the day you are paroled (gotta be fly for all the popparazzi that will be outside them glass doors)



also, what was said above YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS STUFF TOO

and most importantly of all CELLPHONE AND DIGICAM CHARGERS

cannot stress that enough
12682548, decent lotions...
Posted by morpheme, Mon Dec-22-14 02:58 PM
you don't want to be at the mercy of keri.

an emery board.

a pillow with a satin pillow case.

handheld mirror.

tweezers.


i'm vain, may.
12682720, according to my sis preparation h
Posted by LittleTortilla, Mon Dec-22-14 05:43 PM
my friend brought her own adorable gowns and pillow cases. not sure if she gave birth in them or if they were just for the post photo ops.

12682805, this might be a weird/geeky one
Posted by lfresh, Mon Dec-22-14 09:00 PM
But I was in the hospital this summer and I'm a gadget fiend
But I figure with a photo happy husband btwn the two of you and visitors
Things are going to need charging
I had two phones and a ipad to charge
There simply weren't enough outlets (or outlets within reach) so
Travel outlet/extension cord
http://officesupplygeek.com/office-electronics/outlets-to-go-portable-extension-cord-expander-and-usb-charger/
Had mine from my trip to LA
And that thing came in handy esp for visitors



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12682851, this reminds me of this episode, lol
Posted by sixteenstone, Mon Dec-22-14 11:14 PM
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x152qxt_i-love-lucy-lucy-goes-to-the-hospital_tv

:)
12682891, a folder
Posted by samsara, Tue Dec-23-14 02:52 AM
for all of the documents, papers you will get
a pen
your pediatrician and ob/gyn 's numbers so you can schedule follow up appts while you are still in the hospital

lip balm
12682917, Hospital food sucks so have folks bring meals
Posted by unfukwitable, Tue Dec-23-14 07:21 AM

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