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Topic subjectDo you cuss at your S/O when you're mad at em?
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12675701, Do you cuss at your S/O when you're mad at em?
Posted by Geah, Mon Dec-15-14 11:48 AM
Do they cuss back?


Do y'all express yallselfs in that manner?

Like i remember one time a chick i was going with told me "Fuck you" because I didn't wanna go to her momma's crib for one of them holidays.

That was our last argument lol.


My boy got called a "Bitch ass nigga" by his woman this weekend.

He is in his feelings about it.

Let
that
had
been
me
12675706, Naw I don't play that ish. If I feel like I am on that I go take a walk.
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Mon Dec-15-14 11:51 AM

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12675708, anytime a woman calls a man a bitch, it's already over
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Mon Dec-15-14 11:51 AM
12675715, Thats what i said.
Posted by Geah, Mon Dec-15-14 11:55 AM
12675733, cuz it's true :(
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Mon Dec-15-14 12:03 PM
12675810, base. n/m
Posted by ThaTruth, Mon Dec-15-14 12:40 PM
12675739, Define "cuss at"
Posted by John Forte, Mon Dec-15-14 12:09 PM
I think there's a difference between cursing while arguing and cursing AT someone.
12675747, ^^^
Posted by Marbles, Mon Dec-15-14 12:11 PM

We've thrown a few cuss words around when we're heated but we don't ever directly call each other any foul names.
12675752, there may be the occasional "fucking" or "bullshit"
Posted by John Forte, Mon Dec-15-14 12:13 PM
but never any "fuck you's" or name-calling.
12675825, this is wear I'm at with it
Posted by Hitokiri, Mon Dec-15-14 12:45 PM
You'll probably get some "what the fucks" and "fuck that shit" and "bullshit."

but

no "fuck yous" no "you bitch" nothing like that.
12675832, "fucking ridiculous" or "so fucking frustrating"
Posted by John Forte, Mon Dec-15-14 12:47 PM
that kind of thing happens when emotions run high, but we're never disrespectful
12677742, Yeah I'm here with it
Posted by lfresh, Wed Dec-17-14 12:12 AM
And draw that line as well
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.
12675741, nah.
Posted by Iwasmadeto, Mon Dec-15-14 12:10 PM
12675754, no I do not curse at her in frustration
Posted by ThaAnthology, Mon Dec-15-14 12:13 PM
I can't do that... to me it is a violation of our relationship regardless how mad we are at each other.

Now... a "shut up" or "hush" every so often might get hurled around. Or a "You are acting like a____" but never "hey ___hole" or "You're a B*" nope, not the kid.

I don't tolerate that kind of treatment either.
12675756, no name callin but during a bad one a ''fuck you'' *might* be heard...
Posted by 2.tears.in.a.bucket, Mon Dec-15-14 12:14 PM

- from either side, that is.
12675758, never
Posted by atruhead, Mon Dec-15-14 12:15 PM
our shit is far from perfect or super happy all the time, but the most I'll say is "really nigga?!?!"

and nigga isnt a curse in our household
12675759, no, not at all. no need to talk to someone you love like that.
Posted by Cenario, Mon Dec-15-14 12:16 PM
12675784, my woman is Panamanian...................
Posted by Benji, Mon Dec-15-14 12:29 PM
she say good morning with a slight
12675818, lmao they are fiery as shit
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Mon Dec-15-14 12:42 PM
i had a black panamanian chick once that was *easily* the craziest jawn i have ever been with and that is really saying something
12675813, Nah, never. That just seems so impersonal and weakly expressive
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Mon Dec-15-14 12:41 PM
12675815, hell no
Posted by RobOne4, Mon Dec-15-14 12:41 PM
12675823, Naw thats a violation n/m
Posted by DaHeathenOne76, Mon Dec-15-14 12:44 PM

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12676745, Update:
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-16-14 11:06 AM
This happened Sunday morn

He avoided her all day sunday and night

She reached out yday and apologized

he didn't reply

she sent him a text saying "Are u done being mad at me?"

he replied

"I'm not mad, i just know where I stand with you. You have little respect for me to speak to me like that. I've never talked like that to you"


she replies

she feels horrible and sorry. this was about 9 or 10 last night...

he aint replied as of yet.

I think he'll forgive it

BUT WOULDN'T A BEEN ME
12676756, anyone that apologizes via text needs to be alone.
Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Dec-16-14 11:11 AM
12676759, agreed
Posted by ThaAnthology, Tue Dec-16-14 11:12 AM
12676792, he wasn't answering her calls
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-16-14 11:21 AM
or returning them
12677293, if she really loved him...she'd show up and show out.
Posted by Fishgrease, Tue Dec-16-14 03:36 PM
12677746, if that's the opening txt
Posted by lfresh, Wed Dec-17-14 12:15 AM
I don't blame him

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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.
12677744, And the txt itself 0_o
Posted by lfresh, Wed Dec-17-14 12:14 AM

~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
~~~~
You cannot hate people for their own good.
12677313, why is your boy running his mouth to you about shit like that?
Posted by deejboram, Tue Dec-16-14 03:48 PM
that seems like more "bitch about my WIFE to the homie while he bitches about his WIFE at the bar or strip club" type talk

if she wasn't my wife
she wouldnt be in my life if she uttered them words to me
fuck apologizing
im threw nigga
a
quit
tal
12677337, i tell y'all bout my lovelifes
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-16-14 03:59 PM
why can't my dude tell me bout his?
12677340, diff'rent folks, diff'rent....
Posted by deejboram, Tue Dec-16-14 04:00 PM
when i was dating i was always tight lipped bout how i moved
and the innerworkings of my relays

now that i'm married i be on some: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LGEiIL1__s
12676807, I only cuss AT her when I'm clearly playing
Posted by KosherSam, Tue Dec-16-14 11:26 AM
like when she said something about me not having manners, and I said "I do too have manners, you cunt!"

or last night when she asked if I wanted anything to drink, and I said "yes, an orange soda please" and then she didn't bring me a drink. After a few minutes, I got up and went to the kitchen and said "you never brought me my orange soda you fucking bitch."

when we're fighting for REAL though, we don't cuss at each other, though we might have cuss words mixed in.
12676814, yeah, i'm to focused on winning arguments fairly to curse
Posted by hardware, Tue Dec-16-14 11:28 AM
12677112, Even this I wouldn't be able to do
Posted by Niq96st, Tue Dec-16-14 02:02 PM
Even in jest, I wouldn't want to be called a "fucking bitch" from my man. Epitome of You Play Too Much.

12677279, i play WAYYYY too much. that's been well established
Posted by KosherSam, Tue Dec-16-14 03:20 PM
12677627, Nah. Nope. Never.
Posted by Latina212, Tue Dec-16-14 08:56 PM
12677639, lmao.
Posted by R A i n, Tue Dec-16-14 09:21 PM
12676823, i would NEVER say 'fuck you' in anger
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-16-14 11:30 AM
unless i was ready to bounce

basically i try and be careful about what i say when upset

but i curse in my normal day to day so if we're arguing those words are going to come out

but not in a descriptive way i use in my regular speech

but to say fuck you is a point of no return for me

12676831, i have called dudes dicks and assholes though
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-16-14 11:35 AM
because that's exactly what they were acting like

and i dare a mofo to call me a bitch or the c word
im really fucking nice and in no way do i intentionally try and cause drama so to call me that is to have no idea who the fuck i am and you bout to learn
12676862, oh i've been called an asshole so many times
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-16-14 11:53 AM
i almost thought that was my name.
12677371, wait.. you call them dicks and assholes but they betta not dare
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Dec-16-14 04:15 PM
call you a bitch?

FOH..

Nah, this ain't no one way street. You calling me names? I'm calling you names.


EQUALITY
12677643, *shrug* oh wells
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-16-14 09:26 PM
ppl will call them as they see them

i've never been called a bitch by a dude i've dated and ive never given that caveat so it's pretty safe to say im generally not a bitch in a relationship

12676875, my cousin told me her husband called her a fat bitch
Posted by blackrussian, Tue Dec-16-14 12:03 PM
she had a baby 7 months ago. I didn't even know how to respond when she told me that.
12676895, :(
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-16-14 12:11 PM
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12677118, That's incredibly fucked up
Posted by John Forte, Tue Dec-16-14 02:06 PM
like beyond belief. No excuse to ever call anyone a fat bitch.






Unrelated, 7 months is plenty time to lose baby weight especially if the woman breastfeeds. Breastfeeding burns 1300 calories a day. Don't even need to diet or exercise.
12677479, lmao...needed a few more 'enters'
Posted by Cenario, Tue Dec-16-14 05:20 PM

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>Unrelated, 7 months is plenty time to lose baby weight
>especially if the woman breastfeeds. Breastfeeding burns 1300
>calories a day. Don't even need to diet or exercise.
12677635, my wife is smaller post-partum than she was when we got married
Posted by deejboram, Tue Dec-16-14 09:07 PM
when we got married my wife was like 5-2 130
2 months after the baby (mothers day 2014) she was like 120
everybody was like DAMN GIRL you look guuuuud

then i was like
"lemme find out you got a nigga on the side,
lemme find out you tryna take me for a ride,
lemme find that this aint my baby,
lemme find out you know a nigga name Rabies"


but yeah
my wife dont workout for shit
but breastfeeding sucked all the fat out her body
12677376, damn...
Posted by legsdiamond, Tue Dec-16-14 04:17 PM


12676972, Nope
Posted by GirlChild, Tue Dec-16-14 12:50 PM
12677092, nope
Posted by Ashy Achilles, Tue Dec-16-14 01:46 PM
12677097, hardest ill go is a 'man what the fuck!' if @ my wits end
Posted by dba_BAD, Tue Dec-16-14 01:49 PM
other than that never
12677119, No. Neither cussing at while mad or just generally cussing.
Posted by Ted Gee Seal, Tue Dec-16-14 02:06 PM
Most of the time the stress is due to something external pushing on something petty that's internal to the relationship.

Back off, cool down, both sides be sorry, both sides be happy.
12677168, ahh..i hate it. never. no.
Posted by nayaa, Tue Dec-16-14 02:25 PM
nothing more piercing than a "fuck you"
12677308, not to her face but i might mumble something when she leave the room
Posted by deejboram, Tue Dec-16-14 03:46 PM
i'm lying
nah
we dont curse at one another
we dont even like to take it to that level
but i have been known to blurt out a "got dammit!"
or she a "oh my FUCKING gawd! i cant believe you're telling me this shit!"

i think i've said "what the FUCK you want me to do then!?!?!?!?"

i'd say less than two handfulls worth of them outbursts tho
shit gets HEATED
but we control our balls with the profanity tho
cause that's when a nigga go 0 to 100
REAL QUICK


12677326, define "at."
Posted by PROMO, Tue Dec-16-14 03:52 PM
like, we'll cuss but it's not really like "at" each other just more as an expression of frustration.

and definitely no "you bitch" or anything of that nature.

more like "this is bullshit"/"fuck that"/etc.

we don't fight that often. just enough to be healthy, lol.
12677339, nah, that's a violation.
Posted by Scrapluv, Tue Dec-16-14 04:00 PM
12677360, RE: Do you cuss at your S/O when you're mad at em?
Posted by Tiggerific, Tue Dec-16-14 04:09 PM
No. I try not to disrespect my hubby like that by cursing. And, I don't think I have ever called him out his name. But, if I'm cursing AT him, he knows I'm REALLY pissed off! Like... "oh, sh*t! I need to go get a Kobe kinda gift pissed off!"
12677496, *looks around* ......... I said BYTCHHHHHHH
Posted by SeV, Tue Dec-16-14 05:45 PM

but im banned tho.
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12677543, nope - nipped that shyt in the bud early
Posted by Mongo Slade, Tue Dec-16-14 06:52 PM
even mad I've never cussed her out or cursed at her

first time she told me "fuck you"

sat her down and explained rationally why it's never acceptable

2nd time - whyled the fock out on er....then afterward explained rationally that it's not acceptable

3rd time - rationally told her if she thinks that she's going to have an issue saying or talking to me crazy - pack yo shyt hit the door not now - but right now (it was 1am at the time)

she apologized

that was 5 years ago

have not had the issue since.
12677630, .
Posted by initiationofplato, Tue Dec-16-14 08:59 PM
Things are said, and you move on. Anger is irrational and brings our the worst in people. I have not met a single person that has been taught how to deal with anger properly.
12677642, i cuss @ everyone & its a terrible thing
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Dec-16-14 09:22 PM
i feel really bad abt it but in the moment im kinda not really aware of what im saying


does it really matter?

for all my fans who keep my name in their mouth: http://i.imgur.com/v2xNOpS.jpg
12677741, We cuss at each other....but it has to be something intense
Posted by Castro, Wed Dec-17-14 12:10 AM
I'd rather not...but if I am in my feelings, its either I shut down until I can talk mellow about it or I cuss and get it out and then we talk. She will cuss from jump and then if I return it, I am being over the top.

Would never call my partner a B...or string together profanity to call her something. The worse it has gotten is "What the fuck is wrong with you? or You on some bullshit!"

Anything beyond that in the context of us going back and forth would be over the top and violent towards her.


12677750, Yeah, I say bitch a lot. It ain't nothin but sumthin to get used to
Posted by Ralo13, Wed Dec-17-14 12:24 AM
(c) Corey Holcomb

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxZLWECtgNQ&list=PLA8B8E4282864F580&index=12

lol thats my nigga forever for that shit
12677753, What if someone else calls her a bitch?
Posted by Castro, Wed Dec-17-14 12:26 AM