No rude-o, but is it really that mysterious that you'd act similarly to Drummer when you're put in his exact same situation?

Between you and Drummer, Drummer was the needy one. Between you and Jenkins, you're the needy one.

IMO, not answering communications is BS because it's usually a power trip. Especially if it's only out of habit and not for a real reason such as being busy.

I think these neurotic urges will come out no matter who you are in this situation. There is no cure for such neuroses. The best you can do is learn self-control and then it will be easier to handle. I've been there, myself. I was pretty needy and neurotic years ago when I started dating, but I figured out quickly that stuff doesn't fly too well, so I fought the urge to make that neurotic call or send that neurotic text, and it eventually became extremely manageable and it's no problem for me now. I still have the urges once in a while, but it's very easy to resist acting upon them.

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