close proximity-let me see if I can hit tonight" attraction. He wasn't trying to go home alone that evening, you ain't bite so he took his ball and went home. He lost nothing, not one dime or time.





>i met this guy through volunteering a some months ago. he
>recently started a new job that requires him a lot of
>traveling. so he's not part of the org anymore. we hang out
>together for the first time not too long ago with some of the
>volunteers we both know. he was all flirty, touchy-feely,
>which threw me off cause he has never acted this way towards
>me. a few days later we're talking on gchat, and i ask him
>about his behavior. he says he's attracted to me and wonders
>if i'm mad about his behavior. i tell him that i'm attracted
>to him, too, and that i'm not upset. this was about 2 weeks
>ago, and i haven't heard from him since.
>
>what gives?