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12670529, Can we name all the times Luther ever said "girl" in a song? Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 02:30 PM
I always talk about how Luther simply sang about love in a universal way, because I could recall very few times (if any) that he said "girl". I was listening to "Give Me The Reason" today tho, and he says "To Love You, Girl" over and over at the end of the song. Part of me thinks that's because he's basically saying "I ain't fuckin wit'chu no more" in his classy Lutherized way. Of course the elephant in the room is that there were the rumors that he was gay... not that that matters concerning his genius, but it would add a tiny amount of merit to the previous speculation. ANYWAY! What examples do yall have? Can you think of any off-top?
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12670558, Rumors. At the time. Posted by b.Touch, Tue Dec-09-14 02:50 PM
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12670559, I wanna love, wanna have, wanna hold you girl... Posted by Sadat, Tue Dec-09-14 02:50 PM
so make me a believer (Wanna love, wanna love, wanna love, wanna love, wanna love, wanna girl)
"make me a believer" - Busy Body (1983)
*Probably my of favorite luther album cuts...
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12670642, Ah, good one Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 03:30 PM
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12670651, Similar Question. Did everyone know Little Richard was gay? Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Dec-09-14 03:35 PM
Like wasn't it obvious? I feel like I remember him even making eyebrow rising jokes from time to time.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
http://blackpeopleonlocalnews.tumblr.com/
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12670700, yes. Posted by SoWhat, Tue Dec-09-14 03:50 PM
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12670986, Shouldn't he be like a hero or icon or trailblazer or something then? Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Dec-09-14 08:08 PM
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
http://blackpeopleonlocalnews.tumblr.com/
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12670989, he's not? Posted by SoWhat, Tue Dec-09-14 08:13 PM
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12671135, He's all of those things. Posted by shockzilla, Wed Dec-10-14 04:52 AM
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12671220, he is, but like he always says, he never gets credit. Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Wed Dec-10-14 10:18 AM
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12670738, Better question: Did everyone know Richard was actually a fantastic Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 04:13 PM
singer? Not just a guy who shouted and screamed "wooooo"?
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12672115, side note, how many folks know of the OG lyrics to Tutti Fruitti? Posted by double negative, Thu Dec-11-14 09:09 AM
only kind of gay...
"Tutti Frutti, good booty If it don't fit, don't force it You can grease it, make it easy"
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12672142, I heard about that a few hrs ago. Posted by SoWhat, Thu Dec-11-14 09:25 AM
He is a wild one!
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12670658, he did it all the time, fam. Posted by SoWhat, Tue Dec-09-14 03:39 PM
I Didn't Really Mean It She Won't Talk To Me She's a Super Lady Give Me the Reason Creepin She's So Good To Me Sugar and Spice (I Found Me A Girl) You're the Sweetest One She Loves Me Back
...i can go on.
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12670733, Creepin? You sure about that one? Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 04:10 PM
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12670737, everytime i close my eyes/SHE creep/sing it for me 4 times Posted by SoWhat, Tue Dec-09-14 04:12 PM
Creep creep creep creep
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12670964, Ah ok, he did add that ad lib. I was thinking of the OG Stevie lyrics. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 07:40 PM
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12670697, hahaha... Posted by morpheme, Tue Dec-09-14 03:49 PM
make me a believer bout 4 times.
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12670703, Excuse Me Miss, Can I Take You Out Tonight Posted by Ray_Snill, Tue Dec-09-14 03:51 PM
<================================ http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view3/4837778/william-moore-wwe-tackle-o.gif
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12670712, ^^^ Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Tue Dec-09-14 03:56 PM
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
http://blackpeopleonlocalnews.tumblr.com/
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12670735, Word. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 04:11 PM
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12670755, What do we get if we go through with this project? Posted by ShinobiShaw, Tue Dec-09-14 04:21 PM
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12670758, we disprove the theory that Luther acknowledged his gayness Posted by SoWhat, Tue Dec-09-14 04:24 PM
in his song lyrics.
b/c he didn't.
we can read 'Your Secret Love' as being about a closeted relationship.
but it's not.
Luther was a songwriter who cut his teeth in the era before lyricists were expected to draw inspiration solely from their own life experience. so most of the lyrics to his songs aren't autobiographical. he didn't 'keep it real' w/his lyrics.
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/luthervandross/yoursecretlove.html
Oh, yes A kiss in the dark A certain time I can call you A letter of love But no name did you sign Pretending to all That we were just friends when I saw you I didn't know that you wanted me to be I didn't know that you wanted me for your (For your) To be
- Your secret love Why can't we tell somebody 'Cause secret loves Never last as long Your secret love Will never be your true love I can't be no secret baby It's breakin' my heart (You're breaking my heart)
You should've let me know, from the first time baby That you were not, were not free to love How could you wait so long Oh, what a waste of love, baby I should known that you wanted me to be I should known That you wanted me for your (for your) to be
I won't be you secret love 'Cause it's just a waste of my love I'm tellin' you from the start I won't be the one who gives you love When your other guy ain't givin' you none
Don't come now, wait for awhile Let's meet at the place downtown It's a shame it has to be like this But I really miss you baby
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12670929, Stevie does not keep it real either...lol Posted by dafriquan, Tue Dec-09-14 06:48 PM
He writes about looking in mirrors. Lyrics overall way too visual for a dude that can't see beyond formless shapes
I'm glad for songwriters not keeping it too real. Would've been a waste of their creative talents.
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12670969, He also wrote about liking to see her boogie across the floor. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 07:43 PM
>I'm glad for songwriters not keeping it too real. >Would've been a waste of their creative talents.
I definitely agree.
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12671231, the visual bias of our language makes him go "LOOKING for a pure love." Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Wed Dec-10-14 10:26 AM
his tendency for cliches makes him call that love "the apple of his eye." he knows that leaves "turn to brown when autum comes around" because he was told it was so and had no choice but to believe it was so.
Stevie's blindness makes him hyper-aware of the leaps of faith most of us take without thinking about it.
that's what gives him mystical innervisions even though he has no sight.
then add on the fact that stevie believes he is the peer of anybody that can read this, and he has an oddball sense of humor, and bam.
stevie sings about about moments of reflection by looking in the mirror.
^ i can't take credit for that. it's shamelessly plagiarized from Robert Christgau.
>He writes about looking in mirrors. >Lyrics overall way too visual for a dude that can't see beyond >formless shapes > >I'm glad for songwriters not keeping it too real. >Would've been a waste of their creative talents.
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12671873, nah thats too much work Posted by ShinobiShaw, Wed Dec-10-14 06:18 PM
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12670966, Same thing you get all the other OKP projects of this sort. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 07:41 PM
Nothing.
Not sure why the question is being asked now.
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12670934, should've tried this with George Michael instead Posted by ThaTruth, Tue Dec-09-14 06:54 PM
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12670978, Nah, I know songs off hand where he makes references to women. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Tue Dec-09-14 07:56 PM
"Everything She Wants" in particular was my favorite Wham! song when I was younger. I think I said before that I didn't listen to alotta Luther because I considered him "old folks music". I fux with him now that I'm old tho.
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12671205, that's probably the only one, almost every other hit song he had is... Posted by ThaTruth, Wed Dec-10-14 10:05 AM
basically androgynous.
>"Everything She Wants" in particular was my favorite Wham! >song when I was younger.
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12671889, "father figure" and "i want your sex" are about women. Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Wed Dec-10-14 06:37 PM
father figure is about a woman with daddy issues. i want your sex is about being in the "friend zone."
they speak more to issues pertaining to dealing with women, not men.
"faith" could be about either gender. "freedom 90" might be about being gay but i dunno-- it's probably about fame.
his 90s hits were about being gay (fastlove, outside, etc).
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12671891, i want 'Freedom 90' to be about gayness but it's about fame. Posted by SoWhat, Wed Dec-10-14 06:39 PM
"Freedom '90"
I won't let you down I will not give you up Gotta have some faith in the sound It's the one good thing that i've got I won't let you down So please don't give me up Because i would really, really love to stick around
Heaven knows i was just a young boy Didn't know what i wanted to be I was every little hungry schoolgirls pride and joy And i guess it was enough for me To win the race? A prettier face! Brand new clothes and a big fat place On your rock and roll tv But today the way i play the game is not the same No way Think i'm gonna get me some happy I think there's something you should know I think it's time i told you so There's something deep inside of me There's someone else i've got to be Take back your picture in a frame Take back your singing in the rain I just hope you understand Sometimes the clothes do not make the man
All we have to do now Is take these ties and make them true somehow All we have to see Is that i don't belong to you And you don't belong to me Freedom You've gotta give for what you rake Freedom You've gotta give for what you take Heaven knows we sure had some fun boy
What a kick just a buddy and me We had every big-shot goodtime band on the run boy We were living in a fantasy We won the race Got out of the place I went back home got a brand new face For the boys on mtv But today the way i play the game has got to change Oh yeah Now i'm gonna get myself happy
^^ those lyrics are pretty specifically about George leaving his Wham image behind. he doesn't want to be a Pop act - he wants to be someone else.
is that someone else gay? the lyrics don't require that reading but they lend themselves to it.
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12671900, How do you know? Did you interview George Michael? Posted by ThaTruth, Wed Dec-10-14 06:55 PM
>father figure is about a woman with daddy issues. >i want your sex is about being in the "friend zone." > >they speak more to issues pertaining to dealing with women, >not men. > > >"faith" could be about either gender. >"freedom 90" might be about being gay but i dunno-- it's >probably about fame. > >his 90s hits were about being gay (fastlove, outside, etc). > >
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12671902, i used anecdotal evidence and i read the song lyrics. Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Wed Dec-10-14 07:06 PM
>>father figure is about a woman with daddy issues.
yes. ppl have been cruel to the object of his affection in their past, and he wants that person to view him as the good father figure they never had.
i ain't never heard of gay dudes talk to men that way. but plenty of dudes that get laid in the regular have spoken on it. "women w/ daddy issues" is something straight men become aware of as soon as they start getting trim on the regular.
>>i want your sex is about being in the "friend zone." >>
i have never in my life heard of a gay man complaining that a dude he liked wasn't giving up the drawls because he was in the "friend zone."
gay dudes cite lots of reasons for not getting laid. that's not one of them. that's something that straight dudes say, in my experience.
>>they speak more to issues pertaining to dealing with women, >>not men. >> >>
>>"faith" could be about either gender.
it's about being afraid to put your heart out there to get stepped on. that's universal.
>>"freedom 90" might be about being gay but i dunno-- it's >>probably about fame. >>
some of the lyrics sound like they are about wanting to come out as gay, but taken as a whole, the lyrics are about dealing with the public and the label and wanting to get away from his Wham! image.
>>his 90s hits were about being gay (fastlove, outside, etc). >> >> >
do straight dudes typically let women blow them in their car because they just needed to take their mind off of heartbreak?
is it that easy for straight men to find quick sex? or is that more like a cruising experience that only gay men experience?
i am speaking anecdotally.
I don't know.
but these are reasonable interpretations of these lyrics. i didn't talk to George Michael, but I can listen good and that's my interpretation of the lyrics.
why do you disagree?
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12672031, RE: i used anecdotal evidence and i read the song lyrics. Posted by ThaTruth, Thu Dec-11-14 12:14 AM
>>>father figure is about a woman with daddy issues. > >yes. ppl have been cruel to the object of his affection in >their past, >and he wants that person to view him as the good father figure >they never had. > >i ain't never heard of gay dudes talk to men that way. >but plenty of dudes that get laid in the regular have spoken >on it. >"women w/ daddy issues" is something straight men become aware >of >as soon as they start getting trim on the regular.
So you're saying they're aren't any older gay dudes getting it in with younger dudes and playing a "father figure" role at the same time?
> >>>i want your sex is about being in the "friend zone." >>> > > >i have never in my life heard of a gay man complaining that >a dude he liked wasn't giving up the drawls because he was in >the "friend zone." > >gay dudes cite lots of reasons for not getting laid. >that's not one of them. that's something that straight dudes >say, in my experience. > > > >>>they speak more to issues pertaining to dealing with women, >>>not men. >>> >>> > > > >>>"faith" could be about either gender. > >it's about being afraid to put your heart out there to get >stepped on. >that's universal. > > >>>"freedom 90" might be about being gay but i dunno-- it's >>>probably about fame. >>> > >some of the lyrics sound like they are about wanting to come >out as gay, >but taken as a whole, the lyrics are about dealing with the >public and the label >and wanting to get away from his Wham! image. > > >>>his 90s hits were about being gay (fastlove, outside, etc). > >>> >>> >> > > > >do straight dudes typically let women blow them in their car >because they just needed to take their mind off of >heartbreak? > >is it that easy for straight men to find quick sex? >or is that more like a cruising experience that only gay men >experience? > >i am speaking anecdotally. > >I don't know. > > >but these are reasonable interpretations of these lyrics. >i didn't talk to George Michael, but I can listen good >and that's my interpretation of the lyrics. > >why do you disagree? >
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12672079, k Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Thu Dec-11-14 08:12 AM
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12672085, Exactly because history says otherwise. Posted by ThaTruth, Thu Dec-11-14 08:25 AM
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12672092, just interpret the songs however you want, seriously. Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Thu Dec-11-14 08:39 AM
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12672257, Thanks for granting your permission. Posted by ThaTruth, Thu Dec-11-14 10:21 AM
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12670942, Can SOMEONE tell me which song he re-made, where he kept the Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Tue Dec-09-14 07:07 PM
lyrics the same, referring a male/boy?
I thought I was hearing it wrong, but someone in my class pointed it out too..back in the 90's. He remade a song, and the lyrics were on some "ooooh boy I love you so" and he kept them the same.
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12670948, Killing me softly Posted by murderbear, Tue Dec-09-14 07:16 PM
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12671130, this would have been a cool Luther cover: Posted by b.Touch, Wed Dec-10-14 03:33 AM
>"ooooh boy I love you so"
As in: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFvS1APwfuw
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12671868, I never got the big deal about that because the original is about Posted by CocoaCure, Wed Dec-10-14 06:04 PM
Don McClean.
<----- ...I'm a peace-loving decoy Ready for retaliation...
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12671879, ppl are not very smart and don't understand context. Posted by SoWhat, Wed Dec-10-14 06:28 PM
plus when Al B. Sure sang the song he feminized the pronouns which may have confused ppl into thinking the lyrics are about the protagonist listening to his or her lover 'killing softly' by singing details from the protagonist's personal life.
read up, folks:
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
I heard he sang a good song I heard he had a style And so I came to see him To listen for a while And there he was this young boy A stranger to my eyes
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
I felt all flushed with fever Embarassed by the crowd I felt he found my letters And read each one out loud I prayed that he would finish But he just kept right on
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
He sang as if he knew me In all my dark despair And then he looked right through me As if I wasn't there And he just kept on singing Singing clear and strong
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me
He was strumming my pain Yeah, he was singing my life Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly With his song
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12672055, Nah it was another song he did Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Thu Dec-11-14 04:47 AM
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12672067, he did an entire album full of remakes in the mid 90s. Posted by SoWhat, Thu Dec-11-14 07:23 AM
it included 'Killing Me Softly' where he sang using male pronouns.
it also included 'All the Woman I Need' also known as 'All the Man I Need'. but Luther sang it w/the feminized noun and pronouns.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Songs_%28Luther_Vandross_album%29
...but maybe the song you heard is on there. i dunno.
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12671887, this didn't happen on 'Killing Me Softly'. Posted by SoWhat, Wed Dec-10-14 06:35 PM
he sang 'Killing Me Softly' w/o feminizing the pronouns.
it's not a love song.
read all about it:
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
I heard he sang a good song I heard he had a style And so I came to see him To listen for a while And there he was this young boy A stranger to my eyes
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
I felt all flushed with fever Embarassed by the crowd I felt he found my letters And read each one out loud I prayed that he would finish But he just kept right on
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
He sang as if he knew me In all my dark despair And then he looked right through me As if I wasn't there And he just kept on singing Singing clear and strong
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly with his song
Strumming my pain with his fingers Singing my life with his words Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me
He was strumming my pain Yeah, he was singing my life Killing me softly with his song Killing me softly with his song Telling my whole life with his words Killing me softly With his song
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12672054, That surely ain't the song I'm talking about though Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Thu Dec-11-14 04:47 AM
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12672066, i dunno. Posted by SoWhat, Thu Dec-11-14 07:20 AM
you've probably heard a rumor that Luther sang a song w/masculine pronouns.
this is that song.
you may have heard Luther sing a song w/masculine pronouns.
here it is.
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12672071, It was a long time ago, 96-97, when I first heard the rumors Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Thu Dec-11-14 07:56 AM
I knew Killing me softly, especially with it being fresh off the Fugees remake.
I noticed it, and then remember my homegirl who sings catching it and talking about it at school. I definitely can't remember what it was at all though, that's why I was asking here to see if anyone else could remember.
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12672077, sure. Posted by SoWhat, Thu Dec-11-14 08:07 AM
btw...i Googled 'Luther sings masculine pronoun'
https://www.google.com/search?q=luther+sings+masculine+pronoun&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
check the 2nd and 5th and 8th hits on the 1st page.
*shrugs*
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12670976, Some cable channel had a documentary on David Bowie Posted by Pamalama, Tue Dec-09-14 07:53 PM
And they showed footage of him working with Luther. Was kinda cool.
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12672038, I would've loved to see that. Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Thu Dec-11-14 01:20 AM
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12672137, Luther sings backing vocals on the Young Americans album Posted by Bumaye, Thu Dec-11-14 09:22 AM
almost certainly footage from then.
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12672030, Off topic but your avy is incredible ... Posted by Challenger, Thu Dec-11-14 12:03 AM
As a father of twins less than 2 and seeing how they give their grandparents life, it resonates.
That is all.
Challenger-
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12672039, Thanks! Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Thu Dec-11-14 01:22 AM
and congrats
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