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Topic subjectOKP: You make the call
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12670200, OKP: You make the call
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-09-14 11:36 AM
Okay so the PR chick i work with(that i'm allegedly tightening up) has been married for 5 years.

Prior to her working in the Cash Checking Industry, she used to be a professional translator. She made BIG LOOT doing this shit. Did a lot of travel for the shit...Cali, Arizona, Texas, Portreeko and Messico for it...places where spanish speaking peeps needed some professional translating done and paid hampsomely for it.

well in messico she was real hot n heavy with this dude. Let's call him Oscar. She says dude was spending big loot on her all the time...she wasn't asking where it was coming from but she knew it was drugs.

ANYWAY

she met her husband....fell n love..stopped translating and settled down...happily ever after.

well last night Oscar's cousin sent her a message on facedbook and said that Oscar got shot n killed the day before. Drug shit...Says that the family asked if she would come down for the funeral.

Her husband wasn't hearing any of that.

She got mad that he told her she couldn't go as opposed to understanding dude was part of her life prior.

Nah b. I'm on team hubby with this one.

She really is thinking about going down there though and i think it's outta spite.
12670203, she's gonna get kidnapped
Posted by latenitemix, Tue Dec-09-14 11:37 AM
she better send an edible arrangment and call it a day
12670205, first thing i thought
Posted by Zion3Lion, Tue Dec-09-14 11:38 AM
like they settin her up for the okie doke
12670206, #TEAMHUBBY
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Dec-09-14 11:39 AM
i mean...

leave that shit in the past where it belongs...

he got shot in the drug trade in MEXICO...

this aint even on no jealousy shit...on some safety shit

If it was lil Romeo from her old job at the call center...aight...cool...yall had a thing that was safe lol

fuck that yo
12670212, This is kind of where I'm at with it.
Posted by veritas, Tue Dec-09-14 11:42 AM
I'm not about being forced to be the Liam Neeson character in the movie....unless the movie is Kinsey or something.
12670209, Is this the same married gal that seeks constant male attention?
Posted by Wonderl33t, Tue Dec-09-14 11:40 AM
Entertaining texts from exes, etc.
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12670225, different chick
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-09-14 11:49 AM
she's on the up and up
12670210, definitely team hubby
Posted by KiloMcG, Tue Dec-09-14 11:40 AM
12670213, it's not like she's gonna suck his dick in the casket...geesh...
Posted by R A i n, Tue Dec-09-14 11:43 AM
it's not really his call to make based on the circumstances...depends on how serious her relationship was with the guy...me personally, after that long a time, i'd send a magnanimous wreath and call it a day...unless I'd been in contact with him and his family throughout but, my husband would know that i was soooooo, there's that.
12670217, it's not even about jealousy nor necrophelia lol
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Dec-09-14 11:46 AM
it's about the fact u just heard this nigga got shot and you going to the fucking scene of the crime to pay your respects...

that nigga could be alive and trying to kidnap her...or she could be getting set up for a new mule position opening up in their organization

that's some shit u leave in the past...and if it finds you...keep that shit as distant from our marriage as possible lol
12670235, lol.. @ necrophelia....i'm just poasting...haven't been here in a while...trying
Posted by R A i n, Tue Dec-09-14 11:52 AM
to be as reckless as possible to get it out my system and fade to black again.
12670240, lol dead dick sucking is a certified route to POAST
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Dec-09-14 11:55 AM
i approve
12670967, lol @ dead dick sucking...is the penis hard on dead people....if so how do
Posted by R A i n, Tue Dec-09-14 07:41 PM
they keep it down after embalming...why am i even thinking of this?
12673744, selective rigor mortis seems plausible
Posted by MiracleRic, Fri Dec-12-14 12:54 PM
12670214, telling a woman what to do is an exercise in futility.
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Dec-09-14 11:43 AM
You wanna go to the funeral of the dead drug dealer you were dating before you met me, really? That seems cool to you? Go ahead and do it.


does it really matter?

for all my fans who keep my name in their mouth: http://i.imgur.com/v2xNOpS.jpg
12670224, RE: telling a woman what to do is an exercise in futility.
Posted by Zion3Lion, Tue Dec-09-14 11:48 AM
>You wanna go to the funeral of the dead drug dealer you were
>dating before you met me, really? That seems cool to you? Go
>ahead and do it.
>


her even entertaining that stupidity would make me question myself for even marrying her.
12670226, i told her he shoulda called a lawyer right then and there
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-09-14 11:50 AM
cause if that were me i'm looking AT THE FRONT DOOR
12670232, yeah problem is...
Posted by Mongo Slade, Tue Dec-09-14 11:52 AM

if she WERE to happen to get caught up in some shyt while doing so...it would be on you to bail her ass out...

yeah I'd put it on her to make the call if she wanted to do something that stupid...but would be a serious problem if she did.
12670980, No it wouldn't. Nothing would happen.
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Dec-09-14 08:00 PM
But when she got back, our relationship would be hella fractured...hope it was worth it, you lost a good man in the present over a dead man from your past
12670983, but why? I understand the safety issues, but other than that what's
Posted by abby, Tue Dec-09-14 08:05 PM
the problem??

He's dead. He's of no threat to your relationship.

All she's doing is paying respects to an old friend who died.
12671046, Hes dead. You're spending time with a corpse. I come 1st
Posted by Binlahab, Tue Dec-09-14 10:27 PM
What am I supposed to do for the 2-3 days you gone? Fuck that.
12671055, Ok
Posted by abby, Tue Dec-09-14 10:40 PM
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12670233, she is stupid
Posted by labcoat, Tue Dec-09-14 11:52 AM
12670234, she better stay her ass home
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-09-14 11:52 AM
im sorry she' stupid
12670244, also, i say this because Mexico
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-09-14 11:58 AM
they are not playing around down there

there's no reason for her to go

if it was Oscar who lived 60 miles away, she should go and he shouldnt try to stop her

but for her own safety and that of her fam she needs to stay her ass at home

i know ppl affected by the violence down there and it's heartbreaking.
12670247, i don't give a fuck if Oscar live 2 miles away
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-09-14 12:00 PM
if me and u together Peaches?

U IS NOT HAVING NO CONTACT WITH HERB NO MO EVEN AFTER DEATH


12670248, lol
Posted by Zion3Lion, Tue Dec-09-14 12:01 PM
12670250, i mean, this is a bit much, but do whatcha do, playboy.
Posted by KiloMcG, Tue Dec-09-14 12:02 PM

>U IS NOT HAVING NO CONTACT WITH HERB NO MO EVEN AFTER DEATH
12670265, that's why you and me can't be together
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-09-14 12:08 PM
you won. you got me and you're alive

im not finna hop on a plane but i would drive to a funeral. lol.

you too pretty to be petty boo.
12670272, lol
Posted by MiracleRic, Tue Dec-09-14 12:10 PM
12670296, I'm working on that shit
Posted by Geah, Tue Dec-09-14 12:20 PM
BUT NAW U AINT GOING.
12670298, i'm going and i'm bringing you back a prayer card
Posted by teefiveten, Tue Dec-09-14 12:21 PM
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12670988, lol @ this entire dialogue...
Posted by CyrenYoung, Tue Dec-09-14 08:13 PM
..cephus & reesie would have a field day with this one.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...
12673868, lol @ prayer card
Posted by Benji, Fri Dec-12-14 01:41 PM
LMAO
12670261, When you're gone in Mexico, you're gone.
Posted by Niq96st, Tue Dec-09-14 12:07 PM
Ain't nobody coming to find her kidnapped ass.
This is Mexico, not Canada.

Her doing down there would be foolish at best

12670264, yeah, i'm good on mexico and honduras.
Posted by R A i n, Tue Dec-09-14 12:08 PM
12670283, mexico + drug dealer= stay your silly ass home
Posted by Sarah_Bellum, Tue Dec-09-14 12:14 PM
This sounds like a terrible idea.
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12670299, Sorry for your loss
Posted by Atillah Moor, Tue Dec-09-14 12:22 PM
is all I'd have to say as her husband. Kind naive to think going down there would be a the right way to go.
12670968, hell naw
Posted by infin8, Tue Dec-09-14 07:43 PM
might get murked
might get kidnapped

aside from all that I ALREADY TOLD HER NO
12670985, TeamHubby, but it's all in the wording
Posted by KosherSam, Tue Dec-09-14 08:06 PM
if you just explain to her "I know you used to date this guy, but you suspected he was a drug dealer, and it's in Mexico. I think this is a very bad and unsafe idea."

you don't gotta forbid her to get her to not go.
12671067, Pretty much. It's just not a safe thing to do in this current climate.
Posted by ChiBrownSkinLady, Tue Dec-09-14 11:00 PM
>if you just explain to her "I know you used to date this guy,
>but you suspected he was a drug dealer, and it's in Mexico. I
>think this is a very bad and unsafe idea."
>
>you don't gotta forbid her to get her to not go.
12671068, If her dumb ass hasn't arrived at this conclusion, good luck explainin
Posted by Doronmonkflake, Tue Dec-09-14 11:02 PM
It in a way that will make it stick.
12670991, she's trying to get killed
Posted by luminous, Tue Dec-09-14 08:14 PM
12671037, She miss that Hit-Girl drama
Posted by Doronmonkflake, Tue Dec-09-14 09:49 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruSGOLg8rYw
12671070, helllllllllll no she dumb as fuck.
Posted by BrooklynWHAT, Tue Dec-09-14 11:09 PM
12673798, she prolly married and bored
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Fri Dec-12-14 01:19 PM
thinking this will spice up her life
all the excitement in the world isn't worth the potential physical harm and damage to her marriage.
Nope.
Sho ain't.
12673860, lol @ going to mexico for a drug dudes funeral.
Posted by Cenario, Fri Dec-12-14 01:38 PM
this some goofy tv ish

She better catch the highlights on azteca noticias
12673865, nigga dead though. if she ain't into fucking corpses
Posted by Benji, Fri Dec-12-14 01:40 PM
& mofo ain't got a twin, let her go
12673878, she better sit her ass down somewhere...
Posted by morpheme, Fri Dec-12-14 01:44 PM
i'd send a really nice bouquet tho only because his family reached out to me.
but hell nah i ain't gon fix my mouth to ask about that shit.
12673901, she's just not thinking it all through
Posted by Calico, Fri Dec-12-14 01:54 PM
...i mean, the fact she wants to leave the country PERIOD to some exes funeral is crazy