>someone will say "what about women who cant have kids,
>lesbians or women who feel like they were born men?"

im sure some of these women want to have kids- and can have kids (and end up having them - even among transgendered women. )
you also have women who cannot have kids but do want to have kids
but this really has nothing to do with anything in this post.

we are talking about an increasing number of women who do not want to have kids
there's nothing here about natural and unnatural, its all about making informed choice

y'all can take your value judgements elsewhere.