i never entertain a pass long enough to know otherwise.

>i mean yeah we can argue that every dude wants to bang but i
>believe the original premise was pursuing a friendship with
>someone who wants "more". more meaning a relationship or an
>attempt at one, not necessarily just a bang. i think w/
>replies it was revealed that he just wants a bang which
>honestly would make me even less inclined to remain friends
>but if dude just likes you and wants to try dating you it
>should be deaded as well for the sake of his feelings,
>especially if you consider him a friend. at the very least,
>some distance until he can accept it or get over you.
>
>i have many guy friends. i meet new guys all the time b/c of
>the dj thing. none of these guys have come at me wanting any
>more than a friendship. maybe if the window was open for sex
>they'd come out of the woodwork but right now they have never
>tried anything or indicated that they wanted more. i really
>don't think it's that hard to find. and this is coming from
>someone who can't find a date. lol.
>