involved here. the only risk i see is bruising an ego, not breaking a heart. and i'd rather bruise his ego a lil bit than have him thinking we are on some other page that we aren't.

>you might be over estimating the level of what was requested
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>sounds like he wanted sex not a relationship/romance
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>and he has a complicated relationship with an SO
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>it might not be there where this is tortuous/arduous
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>that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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