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>I agree that the onus would be more on the other person. but
>where the other person's culpability comes into play is they
>are essentially using that person. whether it's consciously or
>subconcioiusly

It's just a friendship, not a co-sign on a loan.

He's a man, let him wear his big boy pants and make a decision about what he wants out of this, knowing what she wants out of it.