then insecurity is your friend.
it's quite easy to pick at ppl's self esteem
and then use their insecure state to build them back up.

assuming you are playing to "win,"
there's never a disadvantage to establishing a little competition.
even after you are "together" you don't wanna lose that sense of scarcity.





>if the mark is insecure (something you can't really predict)
>then, it's a losing situation soon after that night.
>
>but you're right, that night - you do have her full
>attention.